Dydara's Blog

May 23, 2010

♥ Showing some love ♥

I’ve written this blog, it is not about impressing anyone. But It is about sharing with someone who likes reading, remembering something as well. I want to improve my English🙂

One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.

សេចក្តីស្រលាញ់ជាមាគ៌ានាំមកនូវសេរចក្តីសុខនិងសុភមង្គល!🙂

Let your love shine through your actions and behaviors

Don’t wait until it’s too late to tell someone how much you love, how much you care. Because when they’re gone, no matter how loud you shout and cry, they won’t hear you anymore. 24hrs make a lovely day, 7 days make a lovely week, 52 weeks make a lovely year & knowing a person like me will make ur life lovely. Have a lovely day n life. Luv meanz to see someone with closed eyez, to miss some1.

Do you know what love is?
It’s a kind of feeling. Lovers would share the same thought, and miss
each other. Share sorrow and Happiness, and Keep the others in
mind. That’s love.

Love is any of a number of emotions related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure (“I loved that meal”) to intense interpersonal attraction (“I love my girlfriend”). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

 

We need more of it :)

We need more of it🙂

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same name. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).

I think love is: Do for others more than you do for yourself.

In true love, there is no evil.

♥ How to show love ♥

Showing our love towards those who deserve it is an art. When you know it’s real, or maybe pure enough to be shown, you have to know how to show it.

1. Be yourself. Don’t play roles and don’t try to act like the cliché lovers you’ve seen in movies or shows. Play your own music when it comes to showing love. Use the next tips to write a piece of your own music.

Being yourself is celebrating you, as an individual – learning to express yourself and be happy with who you are. For some people, it’s learning to love yourself, for others, it’s not hiding who you are or changing things about you to fit in. So read on to know how to express the inner you.

2. Let your love shine through your actions and behaviors. Don’t rely on words to show your love especially when they’re not supported by prior behaviors. Are you claiming that you love him/her? Anyone could do that. If the feeling’s there, it must have turned into actions. The actions are the foundations you need to base your claims on. So the better path would be to go from actions to words. When there’s a need for words to be heard, speak from your heart.

3. Use the circumstances coming up to show your love. When you do it during a normal talk or in normal situations, it won’t impress him/her. It will be sort of cliché. So use the situations that come up. When you choose circumstances to show your love, it’s like you pick a tool for doing it and believe me:it’s a good tool.

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    When you do use words, remember what you’ve said and in fact claimed. Your actions are going to prove or disprove it and he/she is waiting to see whether you keep your word or not.

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    Try to be unpredictable.Listen actively to learn the small/big things he/she cares about and then surprise him/her by doing something about it at the most unexpected time.

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    Show your love to others by showing your love for what they really like or to what interests them. This is another impressive tool. Learn how to use it.

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    Remember that some people recognize or show love in different ways. For example, some people may show their love by kissing and touching, while another person may show love by doing things or just having quality time with the one they love. Fine-tune your music to match your beloved one’s needs and expectations.

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    Think and act spontaneously, Do be prepared (like you’re reading this), but don’t exactly pre-plan anything.

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    Golden Rule for Special Moments: When you’ve built enough credit about your feelings towards him/her, make a small unexpected comment or sentence about your previously-undisclosed feelings at a very special moment, especially with a tone showing you’re not waiting for a response(e.g. without looking into her eyes). An example of this is illustrated here: you do something for her/him, she/he is amazed and appreciates it, you seize the opportunity and tell her of your very honorable belief about her/him. This can be so emotionally penetrative. Such an opportunity only happens once in your relationship. You’ll recognize that very special moment when it comes up.So Don’t use this rule in ordinary situations and don’t use it before you’ve built enough credit with your partner.


  7. Tips
     

    • You’ll have to think about your own versions of showing love or you’ll fall into the trap of copying existing clichés. The more customized and personal you make it, the more real and effective it becomes.

       

    • A very important skill to show love is “listening”. When you listen, you pick up things that the person you love tells you, such as their likes, their dreams, etc. You can later use this information to surprise them with something special that you can do for them. The ideas can be tailored to your or your recipient’s personality(ies).

     

    Warnigs

    • Don’t use one sentence or phrase too many times. Don’t use them mechanically. Words lose impact with repetition.
     Sometimes love is all we need

    Sometimes love is all we need

     

A broken heart needs mending. I am a resilient man – I won’t be unhappy for long.

Do not value the THINGS
you have in your life. But value WHO you have in your life!
Life’s short. If you don’t look around once in a while ,you might miss it.

“if you love something let it go, if it comes back it’s yours, and if it doesn’t it wasn’t meant to be”

Before, I was a dare-devil when I got drunk and sad I drove very fast, without realizing the value of life.ហេងដែរឆ្លងផុត!!! Now no more. One life is connected to many hearts. when you have a problem or lost your life, it can damage the  heart of your friend, loved one, relative and especially your parent. I am so proud of my parents. They give me everything. I have been able to live the life I want to. I love my parent very much.

មាតាបិតាជាព្រះអាទិទេព(God)របស់កូនប្រុសស្រី កូនគប្បីធ្វើសេចក្តីគោរពកោតក្រែងចំពោះលោកទាំងពីរ និងចិញ្ចឹមបីបាច់ថែរក្សាលោកឲ្យបានសេចក្តីសុខ ទាន់ពេលលោកមានជីវិតរស់នៅ ដើម្បីកុំឲ្យមានវិប្បដិសារីទៅថ្ងៃក្រោយ។ កូនដែលប្រកបដោយកតញ្ញុតាធម៌ រមែងបាននូវសិរីមង្គលគ្រប់ប្រការ និងគ្រប់ទីកន្លែង.(If you cannot read it, because It is Khmer font )

Before, my personality was like a mirror, whatever you did in front of it, you would see it reflected back at you. Because I have learned two phrases, my personality has changed from being a person that would be good to people who were good to him and bad to people that were bad, to a person that respects others and treat others as he would like to be treated. The two phrases is “treat everyone with politeness even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice but because you are nice” when we did something nice or show some love to them; it can changes them.

and “If you can control one moment of anger, you can escape hundred days of sorrow”

♥Love is not finding someone you can live with, but someone you can’t live without♥

♥ ♥ ♥ ..once, I trust, I love.. and once I love, I sacrifice..and once I sacrifice, I risk.. but once I risk, I ended upbeing hurt.. BADLY~! ♥ ♥ ♥

If you love someone……say to him or her directly
don’t wait for the destiny to play the role

Beautiful only gets attention but personality captures the ♥ heart ♥

If I could have just one wish
i would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck,the warmth of your lips on my cheek, the touch of your fingers on my skin and the feel of your heart beating with mine…..

Never say i love u if u dont really care

never talk about feelings if they arent really there

never hold my hand if you are gonna to break my heart

never say you are going to…..

if you dont plan to start

No matter what’s going on in life, remember there are always people thinking of you. 🙂

Love of learning is the guide of life

Every life in dis world has been painted by God’s own hands. Dats y I’m thankful b’cos wen He painted my life, He included 1 Lovely color! Dat’s u.

“Don’t let someone become a priority in your life… when you are just an option for them…”

Never cry for any relation in life because for the one whom you cry does not deserve your tears and the one who deserves will never let you cry.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them,
but then an entire life to forget them.

Before we are married we change each other, but when we are married we accept everything of each other.

a man wants woman to be her first man, woman wants man to be her last man.

A successful life consists of success in study, love, career and achieve your goals. It is very difficult to succeed all of this.

When you love someone…you love all of them. That’s the job. you gotta love everything about them. Not just the good things. But the bad things too. The things that you find lovable. And the things that you don’t find lovable. In a relationship, you have to accept the other person for all of what they are.
Not just the parts that are easy to like
And you are stupid if turn your back on something as important as love

help what we can with others in need…the world is ONE big family.

Family isn’t whose blood you carry. It’s who you love and who loves you.

There is no preaching and no “turn and burn”. No matter how difficult things have been for you, you have the power to turn things around. Circumstances do not make you; they reveal you. So, who are you? No matter where you are, it’s time to get positioned for your purpose.

Showing some luv: Go hug your spouse or write them a note of love and appreciation!

I do not wish to be any other age because my life at 13 was nowhere as exciting and enjoyable as my life at 27. I enjoy every aspect of life.

Teach love to those who hate, and let that love embrace you as you go out into the world. May the teachings of those you admire become part of you, so that you may call upon them. Remember, those whose lives you have touched and whose have touched yours are always a part of you, even if the encounters were less than you would have wished. It is the content of the encounter that is more important than the form.
🙂
May you not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Find time each day to see beauty and love in the world around you. Realize that each person has limitless abilities, but each of us is different in our own way. What you feel you lack in the present may become one of your strengths in the future. May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, and not be dependent on another’s judgment of your accomplishments. May you always feel loved.
My purpose in my work is to inspire, motivate, and uplift people who wish to be, have, and do more – not enough – an OVERFLOW of love, joy, peace, fulfillment, success, money, relationships, and more.

I hope this page can spread love to everyone !🙂
Love you all ♥ !
🙂

1 Comment »

  1. […] ♥I love you so much Mum and Dad.♥ […]

    Pingback by I am so proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to. :) « Dydara's Blog — May 31, 2010 @ 7:13 pm | Reply


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