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Highlight Of My 2011: 2011 is a very special year for me. One of the best gifts happened in my life. A 


small-town boy making it to the headline in Youth Leader Magazine which is the biggest youth 


magazine on the Internet. This means the world to me. Something that means a lot to me means 


nothing to others.🙂 31.12.2011


Today I’ve learned a very important lesson. Someone told me that “One woman is dead because of 


heart attack and she was too tired from travel without having asleep. She was a bit overweight. Who 


knows what we called khol kor in English? I was so sorry to hear that. This made me think I should relax when I am tired. 31.12.2011

I feel very good after went to Sauna!🙂 Today I drive around PP and listen to FM 97.5 and I feet good about that!🙂 I don’t know that these are examples of globalization. We listen to the same songs no matter where we are. We listen to Bruno Mars’s songs, eat the same burgers, drive the same brand cars!

May bad things go with 2011 and bring cool and awesome things to 2012!🙂 I am gonna celebrate it in Style!😛 I got to go!🙂 Have a great fun nite!🙂 31.12.2011

I live like this! Hehehe just kidding! The moment I walked into the hotel room of intercontinental it reminded me of parktel in seoul! 31.12.2011

I am having great time in pp! This is where I belong to! Awesome! Good morning from pp! Rise and shine!🙂 31.12.2011

I dun no wat’s got into me recently I always talk abt funny th I talk silly th to make people laugh, talk abt my embarrassment moments I am bragging to make people laugh!🙂 30.12.2011

 

I am on my way to phnom penh. Heading to pp is my super excited day! I am gonna make the last few days of 2011 my greatest days of the year. Work hard, play harder. Go out and make some memories! 🙂 29.12.2011

Sometime I wonder about myself “Why a man like me love a girl like her? She is almost a perfect girl” 

She is too good for me!🙂 The girl that I love is not average women. 28.12.2011

I just don’t have a chance to prove myself about this “I can be a good businessman.” 28.12.2011

There was one time that I read English book and I felt so gratitude for my parents’ support.I mean about everything.  My parents bought me a home and a car after studying in Phnom Penh for a while. I also had a house keeper so I had a easy life!🙂 Without them, I don’t know what my life would be. I love my parents with all my?heart? I have the best parents in the whole world. I am most proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to. Let me tell you something about family: (F)ather (A)nd (M)other (I) (L)ove (Y)ou.

I think some people love to buy me a drink and they ask me to tag along because I am a funny and easy going person! :) I feel fresh after I get my barber to wash my hair! I shared this because I want to tell you bout Beauty of Life!🙂 Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them!  Most of the money I have go to travelling and relaxation stuff such having my hair wash at barber shop, massage, steam, jacuzzi bathtub. I rarely buy a new clothes. Looking at people around me, they have Iphone 4, Ipad 2, expensive digital cameras. I don’t have that latest products like them! But I am still happy with my life.

Buy what you need, not what you want. I need to travel monthly, if not I am become a stressful and aggressive person. 

I just changed my mind not to count down in Bangkok but Phnom Penh. I want to meet my god brother from Australia because I have not met him for the last 5 years. We love each other like brothers!🙂 27.12.2011

There’s 2 kinds of people in this world – talker and doer. I am both of that. how about you? There are two things about life – greedy taker of life and generous volunteer of life. I have all those things. My life is all about super excited and deeply disappointed! 27.12.2011


Forget what hurt you in the past. But remember what it has taught you.

I learned this from one South Korean movie, one man asked his friends these questions: Do you know What playgirls become later? (Dara: That time I thought his friend would say ” They will end up with some diseases!”) His answer surprised me “Good mothers and Wives.”

You know what philosophers called this? A dialectic truth. Dara: I hope this also apply to me because I have youthful enthusiasm!🙂 24.12.2011

“I just realized I have very strong feelings for her that I won’t be able to hide. I don’t want to hold it in. I would like to talk about it and smile at what is on my mind. She is and will always live in my heart.” I am not a talented writer but a slow writer, it took me very long time to come up with these lines! My hobby is: sit in front of my laptop and write something!🙂 24.12.2011

If you have ever read my topics about my ex lover and the girl of my dreams, you would say I am crazy about them. I am even crazier about the journey in my dream, Peace Boat!🙂 24.12.2011

Quotes plays important role in my life. I can find 3 big benefits: I can hold my bad temper, cheer me up. encourage me to pursue my dreams.24.12.2011

I read this from one poster “alcohol can make you feel upset” and then I notice that it’s true. I get high when I drink it but in the next few days I feel sad without reasons. 24.12.2011

As the saying goes, if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself. At first I thought it’s a Khmer saying.


Tonite I had so much fun becus I just drank with my closest friend’s father-in-law and my fri’s relative. I had many great times at the end of the year! Thanks to my friends!🙂  ?”Truth hurts” my fri just said sth to me. But it’s for my own good so I am not mad at him. Thanks for that. His advise is awesome!🙂 23.12.2011

I cannot believe drinking alcohol is part of my life! My friends’ wedding party, friends’ party and relatives’ party. I drink almost every day! I don’t enjoy drinking that taste! Sigh! 23.12.2011

I cannot believe that two of my relatives that I consider my closest relatives did that to me. It really hurt my feelings. “What Goes Around Comes Around” I used to do that to my bad friends. I just want to say thanks for what you did for me but I also want to say what you want is what I want. I always say this to my difficult friends “We are no longer friends!” And now my relatives made me say that to them! 22.12.2011

What I am about to say sounds like I am bragging about myself but if you understand these words you will not see that way “Something that means a lot to me means nothing to others. It is with great honor and privilege that I wrote about my beloved program, SSEAYP for Youth Leader Magazine which is the biggest youth magazine on the Internet. It is my privilege because there are thousands of participants from 11 countries and they interviewd me for the article. To me, that’s worth more than money can buy. 21.12.2011

Highlight Of My 2011: 2011 is full of ups and downs for me. I was deeply disappointed twice this year. I was so excited to be in final interview for one Japanese Scholarship but it turned out to be my deeply disappointed day because I could not make it. The girl that I love so much deleted my link about my first novel on her wall. Here comes my best parts, a small-town boy making it to the headline in Youth Leader Magazine which is the biggest youth magazine on the Internet. The Best ever wedding I have been to! All the long way for Chealsea match!🙂 21.12.2011

Sun Tzu: The art of War “avoid the strength of the enemy, strike his weakness” very well said!🙂

 ‎”know yourself and know your enemy, and in a hundred battles you will never lose.”

Do you want to know something funny about my wanderlust?

I am a Wanderlust which means a very strong desire or irresistible impulse to travel. I am sick when I stay at my shop house all the time but when it comes to travel, it can inject me with energy and I feel alive. 20.12.2011

This is my big problem that I will tell my future wife: “I am a Wanderlust I can spend a little money on my living but I need to take travel once a month otherwise I become a stressful and aggressive person!

Most of the money I have go to travelling. I still have worn this cloth for the last six years. I rarely buy a new clothes. Looking at people around me, they have Iphone 4, Ipad 2, expensive digital cameras. I don’t have that latest products like them! But I still happy with my life :) Buy what you need, not what you want. I need to travel monthly, if not I become a stressful or aggressive person.

♥Last nite I could not fall asleep. I just thought about one girl. My heart beat faster by just the thought of her. One word best describes the girl of my dreams is majestic which means beautiful, powerful or causing great admiration and respect. She is the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. You have power over me: You rarely say a word to me but when you do it does make me feel love, hurt, and warm! You wrote “happy birthday” on my birthday that words brought a very big smile on my face. I really admire your great personality. You’ve earned my respect! I think you have no ideas how much I love you! 19.12.2011

An illness related to love… Various symptoms, including nausea, loss of appetite, dizziness, and insomnia. It can get serious very quickly and has been known to be deadly! Almost throwing up blood on my keyboard in anticipation of getting comment from you.😦

Those who learn to trust, are the ones who are betrayed.

If you want golden eggs you can’t feed crumbs to the chicken.

Usually I enjoy being around people but I also have time that I want to be alone. This also apply to FB. I love sharing about my life on FB but sometimes I also want to deactivate this account!🙂 12.12.2011 

I am not bragging or anything. Most of my friends are sweet people and sometimes I can’t believe my friends love me that much. I am a man with a lot of buts. I am not a poor man but I am a broke man after my monthly trip and my friends always ask me to join their trip and they say to me just join with us and I will pay everything for you. Sometimes I turn down their offers because it’s unfair and I don’t want to take advantage over them. I feel gratitude and honor about their kindness!🙂 When I went to Phnom Penh I wanted to buy my friends a drink and they always say “No need to pay for us, you should keep that money so you can stay here for longer. I hear that a lot from different group of my friends. Those words amazed me!🙂 12.12.2011

Today I had a new experience about this: The girl I just noticed( I don’t mean the girl that I crush on) I just realized she is my friend’s girlfriend. It’s like a scene from Thai music video. I smiled and laughed about that!🙂 11.12.2011

I am easily get surprised and have strong sense of appreciate like Japanese people, when I see something good, I always say hey that’s awesome, amazing. But I am very extrovert! I have strong gratitude in my attitude for people. 10.12.2011

“You are the driver who steers the wheels of your own LIFE. Never let anyone steal your seat. Be in charge and be responsible. And enjoy the journey your own way.” Auntie Chan Bokeo

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” Steve Jobs

 

I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet. ~ Gandhi

‎”If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything.”

I fail to improve Khmer’s reading habit on FB or blog. I cannot force them to read. I got only one or two likes for one topic, but I got 10 or 20 likes for a funny picture. why I have to waste 3 or 4 hours to read and write for one article. I should just keep it to myself! 09.12.2011

”When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.”

I am a good many things, but a businessman I am not I mean I am not good at making money. It’s like a pain in the ass. The highest views of my blog is about 400 views per day and I want to make my money from my blog and I don’t know how! The people around me have everything, my brother and some of my friends make a lot money. How about me? I just save up my money every day to take my monthly trip. When I thought about it, this idea came to my mind “You can win life by all means..Yes..
If you simply avoid two things…
1. Comparing – with others
2. Expecting – from other

Life will be more beautiful!!” And I feel better!🙂 09.12.2011

I am a man with a lot of buts. I’m more of doing whatever I want with my life, this is my life. But sometimes I have to give up my dreams for the ones I love the most, my parents. For my parents, I have to live in Battambang where I feel I don’t belong here. Phnom Penh is where I belong. I know this is nothing compare to what my parents have done for me. The good news is I can go wherever and whenever I want!🙂 Usually I am a flexible person but at other time I stick to the rules. 09.12.2011

Life is short, so be a blessing to others.         

 Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.

Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see life with a clearer view.

Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

The difference between school and life? In school, you’re taught a lesson and then given  a test. In life, you’re given a test that teaches you a lesson.

For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.


Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand and melting like a snowflake. Let us use it before it is too late.  

Don’t let what you can’t do stop you from doing what you can do.


“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

Happiness has one advantage over wealth;  no one can borrow it.


The best way to predict your future is to create it.


While seeking revenge, dig two graves – one for yourself.


Nothing brings you peace but yourself.

When the world says, “Give up,” Hope whispers, “Try it one more time.”


To know the road ahead, ask those coming back.

“Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.”

Appreciate: admire the good in yourself and in those around you.


“If you do not hope, you will not find what is beyond your hopes.”

My facebook has wide variety things and photos, self-improvement messages, funny pictures, and breathtaking scenery pictures! 🙂 08.12.2011


“People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.” Dale Carnegie

It is the foundation of the building. Education is the foundation of life.

“Setbacks are temporary as long as you don’t give up.” ~Kevin Ngo~


“Fighting for your dreams isn’t always easy but it’s so worth it.” ~Unknown~

‎‎‎”Whatever you’re going through, many others have not only experienced the same but got out of it just fine.” ~Unknown~

“Life is tough, but you must be toug~Unknown~
“A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise uccess.” ~Unknown~
I so love one line of this song “Take Me To Your Heart” of Michael Learns To Rock “I should go and see some friends” Today I feel much better after I talked to my friends!🙂 04.11.2011

A short walk is so difficult,
when no one walks with you.
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.

We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most.
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.

Death is not the greatest loss in life..
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive…


Life is not about the people
who act true on your face..
It’s about the people who
remain true behind your back..


Time decides whom you meet in life.
Your heart decides whom you want in life.
but your behavious decides
who will stay in your life.

Today, I feel like a normal day!😦 “Life happens when you’re busy making other plans.” “Challenges 
are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” Joshua J. Marine      03.11.2011

Beside my country I love Japan the most! I also love South Korea that much after AYC 2008 and I fall 
in love with one girl who studies there! But I always visit Thailand Spend less but more fun!

I can not see my future through a very good girl and I can not be more myself with her. For the girl I 
deserve I feel I deserve better! A great relationship is when you feel completely at home with another

person. You can talk to them about anything and you don’t need to always be kissing them to feel 
happy and where you can be more yourself. It’s comfortable to be around your lover. They bring out the best in you, and make you a better person. 25.11.2011

I don’t know why I am not good at remembering people’s name but I do remember my memory with hem!😀

Tonite I am so happy and I feel confident after talking on the phone with my dearest friend about my 
final interview! Thanks to Rithisal Kang Bong Sal, you are my source of inspiration. I have done some
home work about interview yet I still missed a lot points. You are the man that I can turn to for the
help. I am so sorry to bother you again and again. Without my parents and friends, my pathetic life
would not be worth living. You want to succeed in something ask some tips from successful people!
Thank you so much Bong Sal! I do appreciate your help! I really want to return my favor for you. I
have owed you a lot. Let me know if you need any favor from me, ok? You are so missed! All the best
to you!😀 23.11.2011

I cannot believe myself, I am a real easy-going person but I could get hurt easily by small thing. I 
wrote one story about one girl and when I shared the link on her wall, she deleted that link
immediately. I am deeply disappointed. Maybe I attached too much important to her!I keep coming
back to Facebook because of one person and now she finds me annoying. So Facebook is no longer
important to me. I will leave it for good. The longest time I could deactivate from FB was about 2
months and half. I used to say that I will activate my fb on special occasion like x-mas and new year,
but now I changed my mind. I’ve had enough of it!😦 20.11.2011
You want to hear something funny about me? I am not bragging or anything. I needed to test myself,
mentally and physically. I have done many things to prove myself sth. When I was younger, I was
wild. I could drink one liter of whiskey in a few hours. I could talk 10 hours on the phone per day for
a few months. I didn’t fall asleep for a few days. Is it funny? 20.11.2011

If we have not had Global Financial Crisis, I would have been to many more countries. Learn to view 
everything as a worthwhile experience. Thankful for being broke. I can know who my true friends
are, I can be a stay at home person. If I had traveled a lot, I would had accident and I could think of
many bad things would had happened to me. 19.11.2011

What Goes Around Comes Around! I share a lot and that annoys most of my friends and it annoys me 
when I have to reply many comments!😀 19.11.2011

A few years ago I met one girl who was almost ideal female. You know why I used the word almost 
becus it’s one-sided love and she does not return my love! What a loser!😀 19.11.2011

What Goes Around Comes Around! I used to buy my funny friends a drink and they made joke to 
make me laugh and now other friends buy me a drink and made joke to make them laugh!🙂
18.11.2011

No matter how much self improvement messages I read I still cannot get rid of my rebel attitude. 
17.11.2011

Sometimes I feel I wasted a few years of my life on having grief. The Sadness Behind the Smile! The 
bad year make a good one better! At least I know how it feel! 13.11.2011

I change my name to De Activat, share a lot is me, hahahaha no doubt about that. I named this becus when I deactivate  they will see my name as deactviat.
Pisei Greenie Ma yang del nes…..🙂 you’re so unique. No one’s like you on earth. Haha…
De Activat Thank you!😀 hehehe🙂 I take this as a compliment!😀 Daraism!😛 13.11.2011

I save up my money everyday for my monthly trip and I make every penny count! I wanted to spend 9 
years to save up money and then take the trip of a lifetime. 13.11.2011

I think I have multi personality so I don’t get bored with my life. But multi personality is kind of 
mental illness. That scares me! 13.11.2011
I would like to experience the fisherman’s life for a few days!🙂
Who wanna bet with me that a man like me who loves traveling so much can stay at my shophouse 23
hours a day for one month?   Sometimes I wish I feel like a normal person. When I am happy, I am

extremely happy, when I am sad, extremely sad. I am a man full of love but I also have a strong hate! 
11.11.2011

This morning I had orange after breakfast and it made me miss my breakfast at AYC and SSEAYP. I 

missed orange juices, milk. I also missed fried eggs for my breakfast at AYC. There were a cook who 

made fried eggs for us. We waited in line to get that. 09.11.2011

I have multifarious interests: Travelling, Reading, Writing, Speaking, Internet, Philosophy, 

Psychology, Geography, History, Technology, Health, Lifestyle, Video Game, Blogging, drinking, 

Socializing with friends, being a stay at home person, Astronomy.  I could go on and on. I love really 

just about everything!🙂 08.11.2011

I am a believer in life-long learning. Love of learning is the guide of life. I value knowledge so much. I 

don’t pursue my master degree because when I think too much it gives me a headache! But I do Self-

Study!🙂 08.11.2011

I only see good and beautiful things. Only the good in people, too. But I know how to take 

precautions from people as well.

I don’t hold a grudge against anyone. If I do, I do it in good way “the best revenge is success.” I live 

happier and more meaningful life than that people. 08.11.2011

Nothing beats Youth exchange program when it comes to travel abroad. My life is very interesting 

when I am at youth exchange program. I feel like I was born for this and it is where I belong. 

08.11.2011

After I lay low for a long time I feel I want to go out in the world again. I saw one oportunity appear in 

front of me and I hope I can seize it. I need that training program badly. Desperate for it!🙂 08.11.2011

I think I have had enough of my carefree life and I want to focus on something! 06.11.2011

In recommendation letter from my lecturer, she mentioned about “enlightenment” made me realize 

this “I read one quote that I’ve read a long time ago which I didn’t understand that time but now I 

do.” 06.11.2011

To achieve my life’s ambitious I need to have successful business first. I wanted to run pub but I 

think alcohol is not good for people and then I came up with this idea “I want to run English school 

in Phnom Penh” Wish me luck!🙂 Thanks 06.11.2011

Last nite when I could not fall asleep I wrote this topic “Don’t be a person who wants so much 

without making any sacrifices.” It’s one of my inspirational topics. I am not skillful in writing and it 

gives me a headache. I always read about my topics again and again, this sentence doesn’t look good 

and I need to change this or that. It takes a lot time. I think I should write it in Khmer in my book. I 

will Keep it to myself unless I find my editor. Why I want to write while not so many people read 

mine. 06.11.2011

What is the point in trying to have a relationship of any kind if it is not based on truths that are 

shared? Too many people in this world get by on façades which they hide behind, never letting 

anyone see beyond the persona they have created. This doesn’t apply in official occasions. Trying to 

be a soft-spoken person and having a gentle manner for my big day. Just thought of that made me 

laugh!🙂 05.11.2011

I just drank with my friends and I am half-way drunk. I am so sorry my dream girl what I am about to 

say is kind of crazy. Every time I drank your picture appear in my mind. I could get over with my ex 

but not u. I am open to my parents I even told my parents that I fall in love with foreigner. Her 

personality is not just my dream girl, that’s my dream wife. I am drunk if not I could not reveal this 

true feeling. You are so charming. I always ask myself where can I find a girl like you. I am not trying 

to hit on you! Only secret admirer know what I am talking about!😦 04.11.2011

In 9 years (2020), if I cannot save enough money to take the trip of a lifetime I would sell my home or 

land to make it happen. It’s the magic of risking everything for a dream nobody sees but me. I think 

I’d rather have the amazing life with a tragic end. Because what’s life without risks? I wouldn’t want 

to hold back or not do amazing things just because of what might happen. 04.11.2011

I have been waiting for a phone call to know about my interview day. I hope it’s not the same day as 

my best friend’s wedding day. My interview will be held in Phnom Penh and my best friend’s 

wedding, Pailin. 04.11.2011

My efforts to raise awareness of the power of gratitude, positive thinking, how to be a sweet person 

etc. on Facebook and blog. I think I fail to do that. Only a few people read that. I cannot force them to 

read. Sometimes I think I should not share any of that anymore. My intent on FB: 1. to share 2. to 

learn 3. to see what my friends are up to. 04.11.2011

I would like to try a bohemian lifestyle someday!🙂

I want to travel like nomadic people (nomadic means they do not stay in one place for a long time). 

But my parents would not allow me to do that.

Arranged marriages are still practice in Cambodia and some couples got married after knowing each 

other just a few months. I just wonder how they spend the rest of their lives together. Marriage is 

like a matter of life and death to me because this is about spending the rest of my life with someone! 

🙂

Can you think of any moment in your life that you would like to relive? My answer: SSEAYP, AYC and 

University Student Life!🙂 02.11.2011

Something about me is always about contradictions: I am one of those who doesn’t like owe anyone 

favor but I do owe to so many people favor. 02.11.2011

Life Is An Echo: What you send out – comes back. What you give – you get.
Remember, Life is an Echo. It always gets back to you. Before I liked to buy people a drink and I so 

loved my friend I even bought air ticket for my friend to join with my trip. But now there are other 

people who like to buy me a drink!🙂 Life is full of surprised!

When you change your value, you change your way of thinking toward it. I mean I don’t enjoy 

facebooking so I come up with many reasons that I should deactivate my facebook. 02.11.2011

I’m allergic to facebook and it gives me a headache. Be gone soon but not forever!🙂 first week of FB, 

enjoy. after few days, headache. 02.11.2011

Sometimes I wonder about myself why I need to tell the world that I really like her so much! 1.11.2011

A few months ago I tried to find South Korea scholarship on short courses. My real intent was just to 

see one person! hahhaha what a crazy idea! 1.11.2011

Sometimes I have self-pity that I am a stay at home person. I feel like I’m jealous of my Asian friends 

who can study and work in USA. But counting my blessing and I tell myself this: I have freedom I can 

go wherever and whenever I want. What else would I ask for? 1.11.2011

nomadic people (nomadic means they do not stay in one place for a long time). no·mad  (nmd)
n.
1. A member of a group of people who have no fixed home and move according to the seasons from 

place to place in search of food, water, and grazing land.
2. A person with no fixed residence who roams about; a wanderer.                       Hi Mom Noi, how are 

you? Your home is ok from flood? If your family need place to stay I can host your family. I wish you 

all the best, take care, miss you, Mom Noi

I wonder about how many Cambodian people have sailed around the world. If I can’t be the first 

person from Cambodia. At least I could be in that club one day.

I always comment this in CPY couples’ wedding photo “You guys are family in the SSEAYP world. 

Now become real family! :)” who knows this might happen to me!🙂 heheheheh just kidding most of 

my status are about funny things!😛

I think I travel more than the average number of people traveling but I also spend time at home more 

than the average number of people staying. What kind of stupid logic is that? Who thinks these 

words are making sense in my case? Thanks!🙂

I am packing for the trip of my lifetime. I hope one day I can write this for real. I say to myself, “In 

ten years, I’ll have enough money to take the trip of a lifetime (Peace Boat which travels around the 

globe) Don’t be a person who wants so much without making any sacrifices! 

I would say this when I start that trip “It’s like I’ve been living my whole life for this moment.” I 

would take a video and say “This is where I start my trip and when I get back here again I would 

make another vidoe and say “This is where my journey end.”

Look at the sailing schedule, it shows the Earth is round, travelling eastward around the globe. Start 

from Japan travel eastward to Peru and continue the trip until it will return to Japan.

I am so obsessed with my dream girl. I even print out her photo and stick to the wall. Sometimes I 

looked at the photo and asked where can I find a girl like you. I know this sounds creepy. Love is 

crazy, isn’t it? 12.10.2011

If you don’t care about anyone, you will end up all alone by yourself. I feel that right now. I am 

forgetful but I have my unforgettable moments, one of them is when I was sick my former lover came 

to take care me and that’s amazing experience!🙂 11.10.2011

I don’t like novel but I think I have the soul of a novelist. heheheh🙂 I like to narrate my life story. 

Last month I wrote my first short novel. I want to have the strength of a lion and the soul of a poet. I 

hope I am on my way to have these things.🙂 11.10.2011

Since I knew I will be at final interview, not a day goes by I don’t think about it. I just knew what to 

think that makes me not nervous: I went through a lot tough time and this is just an interview and I 

just need to make sure that I am well-prepared! I am a lazy man but when I decide to do something, I 

put my all into it and I will stop at nothing!🙂 Wish me luck! Thanks!😀 11.10.2011

I have almost all kind of friends. Today I want to talk about my friend who is good at doing business. 

He is really amazing. He has already achieved everything in his 20s. He owns many computer shops 

and he has beautiful wife who comes from wealthy background. If I had give up study 9 years ago and 

I just work in my parents’ shop, I would have became a rich person by now. I would have a 

completely different life and you would not have read this. You know what, people lead a different 

life. I’m not proud of everything I did but I’m pretty sure I’d do it all again! 11.10.2011

My proposal speech (Say these with serious face and voice) I am not a good man and not a rich man. I 

know I’m inadequate for a girl like you, but I’m sure
I can give you a good life. I will devote myself to
you and our family. (one part of me) laugh at these words!🙂 Just for practice!🙂

Many of my foreign friends ask him if Im gay. I am not gay nor bisexual. Even think of doing that stuff 

I feel like it is disgusting. I’m Totally Straight.

“Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your 

heart” I can relate this quote to my FB. People are unreasonable. Some people seemed to like 

comment with me and then one day they remove me. I just don’t understand and I don’t care. If u 

don’t like me, then plz make ur way out of my life. Haters are not needed. F… off! 09.11.2011

About 7 years ago my IFL lecturer said this: Marrying the right person is like hitting the jackpot. If 

you ask me what I remember from what she taught from the book. My answer would be “I remember 

nothing.” When someone said good words or quotes, I can remember where, when, and who said 

that words. It’s like I capture that moment to my brain. 09.11.2011

Not only during the trip I am in a good mood but also after the trip. 02.10.2011

I play video game like a kid, I get my barber to wash my hair like a girl, I drink alcohol and do other 

stuff like a man. 02.10.2011


I am packing for the trip of my lifetime. I hope one day I can write this for real. I say to myself, “In 

ten years, I’ll have enough money to take the trip of a lifetime (Peace Boat which travels around the 

globe) Don’t be a person who wants so much without making any sacrifices! 18.09.2011

Last week I wrote my first fiction story called Love knows no boundaries. Based on actual events and feelings. It’s about one man save his money to buy air ticket to visit his foreign friend that he loves. I 
smile while writing it. 18.09.2011I will share many things today for the last time before I deactivate my FB account, This time I am not sure about my return. If I can not overcome a midlife crisis and self-doubt, I would not be back! I will take a long break from my blog and FB. 18.09.2011
Every coin has two sides. In other words, there are two sides of every story. Most of my relatives think of me as fun-loving person and hang out all the time. I think it is half truth, they don’t know that when I stay at home, I stay at my shophouse almost 24 hours a day. And I always travel on low-budget. I am a fun-loving person. But I am mistakenly judged by people who don’t truly know me. it is not all about having fun- it’s about learning, experiencing and exploring life. This is my life and I can do whatever I want with my life!🙂 17.09.2011
Next month I plan to have cyst surgically removed. It’s getting kind of scary!😦
I hope I can overcome a midlife crisis and self-doubt, so I can enjoy facebooking and no need to deactivate again and again!🙂
This Sunday I will deactivate my Facebook again. This time is for real. I am very extrovert but now I want to be introvert for a while. And I need time to figure sth out. I will be back on November or early than that. Take Care 16.09.2011
Today I am so excited to get one phone call which is about I got into interview for exchange program. 14.09.2011
I am sick again. Sometimes I hate myself for hurting myself from drinking too much. When I am sick I feel miss one moment, someone came to take care me. That’s my unforgettable moment of her. 13.09.2011
Looking back at these memories. It’s one the best moments of my youth life!🙂 Watching this video brought a lot of memories to me!🙂 AYC 08, you are the best!🙂 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fApnImaffCo     12.09.2011
Yesterday while I watched comedy show I realized about something: When we are old and sick and no children take care us, that’s miserable time because we are all alone by ourself. I can feel that because I enjoy single life but on valentine day is the loneliest day of the Year for me. If you never really cared about anyone or anything then were you ever really alive? 12.09.2011
Today I came across this in my reading “Many couples tend to look similar to each other. This article really answer to my wonder that I had long time ago “Is it human nature that we tend to love partner that have face similar to us?” The researchers say “Yes” For example. I love the face of my dreamgirl. Maybe she looks a bit similar to me.🙂 11.09.2011
Sometimes I wonder myself about this: I am a cunning person or not which describes people who are clever at planning something so that they get what they want, especially by tricking other people, or things that are cleverly made for a particular purpose. 10.09.2011
                                                                                                                                                                                                        Self-awareness can be interpreted as both positive and negative. For instance, this could be a plus if you know your mistakes and don’t repeat them. It would be a pain in the ass if you can’t move on with your mistakes and keep blaming yourself. 06.09.2011                                                                                                                                                                        
    
Today I felt extremely unhappy. I might get the world record for being miserable. Why my magic (positive thinking) doesn’t work.                                                                                                                                                                                                  
 
 
If I save 200 USD per month and in 10 years, I would have enough money to pay for Peace boat’s participant fee!                  
  
  While I was having a drink with my closest friend, PSI staff run into me and conducted a questionnaire with me. That’s kind of funny and I got a towel as a gift.🙂
 
I will deactivate my FB this Sunday and my last topic will be published on this Friday and I will take a long break from my blog. The topic is my favorite word and an interesting and useful Topic.
I am a man full of love but if I lost that feeling for somethings, it is very hard to get it back and I will become a very cold person.  I become a very cold person which means not showing kindness, love or emotion and not friendly. I”ve had enough of Facebook. I am sick and tired of Facebook. It gives me a headache. I will deactivate it and I am not sure when I come back. What the f… is wrong with me! 
06.09.2011                                                                                                                                                                                 
I want to work in Phnom Penh, Komopong som, or Siem Reap. If you know about a good job don’t forget to share with me. Thanks in advance.🙂 I want to change my lifestyle!🙂 05.09.2011                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   
After my Birthday, I mean on 08 sep this year, I will not share that much anymore, 2 status per day top. If you want to read my sharing, you can visit here! :) 
05.09.2011                                                                                                                             
Today I felt fresh after I get my barber to wash my hair but when it comes to writing it gives me a headache again, why I am such stubborn? I am writing my second last topic, then one more to go and I will take a long break from blog. 
05.09.2011                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         
A few months ago, I saw someone took credit about someone else work, she claimed that was her words. I asked her, really, she said yes. I don’t want to embarrass that I know who said that words. I don’t see the point why she did that. I am not a liar, but liar knows liar. “It takes a thief to catch a thief”
          “easy come, easy go” easily motivated, easily fatigue
Life is C between B and D,
‘Choice’ between ‘Birth’ and ‘Death’.
I called these people “Elite Group” That’s 6 years ago and now some of them have Phd, Some have a high paid job. One of them got Asian Youth award and another one got ASEAN youth award. Some are rich. How about me? I am the Facebook superstar. It is not self-proclaimed. Some people called that name. hehehe I wrote this just intend to make you smile and laugh. :)When it comes time to Play , some of us play like childish. This is called Young At Heart.😀 When it comes Time to work, we take it very seriously. This is called responsibility!🙂

At PDT, I met a lot of incredible and talented people. I have learned a lot from them. Thank you guys!🙂 I miss those days so much!😀

Life is richer because of all the milestones. I always believe that what makes people different is not the starting point, but the turning point. Participating in SSEAYP is my turning point.

I am very grateful that I have been a part of this awesome program; it gives me a great sense of pride.
http://dydara.wordpress.com/2010/03/31/sseayp-ship-for-southeast-asian-youth-p

rogram/

 

Life happens when you’re busy making other plans. In my version “Life happens when I hit the road.” Many people called me “Firefly” which means I am always on the move. For example, in 5 days I went to different cities Btb – Siem Reap – Btb-Bangkok – btb -Phonm Penh. That’s 2 months ago. 02.09.2011

I love the saying “make your passion pay you” I am trying to answer that sayings. My great enthusiasm is Philosophy, Psychology and Geography. How can I make money from that things. Who has any ideas? 02.09.2011

 Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. Carol Burnett

Dara is back in the house!🙂 I hope I enjoy facebooking like before, otherwise I will deactivate it again! While I was off from FB, I got one lovely email from my sweet OBF and one call from my cute SBFF. She asked me, why I deactivated my FB? Why I isolated myself? She said you are one of us. Thank you for your sweet words, Rainy and Jessie! :) Rainy Rynain Sothea Pn 01.09.2011

A man who likes to play by his own rules, that’s me, Dy Dara

Be polite but don’t kiss ass.

 I have many good sayings that I keep in my mind this is one of them. “Good things happen to a good person. So you guys should start do something good for your people around you. To do good deeds for people around me is my real ♥pleasure! ;) “If you’re looking for friends when you need them…it’s too late.” — Mark Twain I think this quote refers to someone must have good connection with people first before you ask any favors from them.

When I can read and better understand English, I feel gratitude for my parents’ support. And even I work for them, they don’t pressure me and I have more time to read on the Internet and to write for my blog. 29.08.2011

I don’t make money from my blog but I can metaphor my blog to “Running business that need profit if it can’t, it will go bankrupt. I mean, if there are not many people read my blog, I would no longer post any more of my topics. 29.08.2011

“If you’re looking for friends when you need them…it’s too late.” — Mark Twain

“Life is hard. It’s even harder if you’re stupid”

“Patience is not waiting, it’s how you act while you’re waiting”

“Age doesn’t always bring wisdom. Sometimes age comes alone”

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”

-Helen Keller

“Personality  traits  can  be  interpreted  as  both  positive  and  negative. For instance,  being critical is one  of   your  traits. This  could  be  a  plus  if  you  are  an  editor  of  a  publishing  company, or  a meat  inspector.  It  would  be  a  negative  if  you  are  a  supervisor  trying  to  gain  rapport with an employee. ” These  words surprised me because they have the  same  metaphor  as  mine. I  know  this  quote “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” I think of my friend who is so critical, you could work well in the field of movie reviews or government reform committee. 28.08.2011

Travelling  allow s  me  to  find my  true  self:  When I hang out with easy-going people, I get on well with them all the time. I don’t even have a small argument. Usually I am an easy-going person, but with difficult people, I will behave like difficult person to them. For example, I just hang out with them a few times and I had some arguments. I try to think something is wrong with me. I realized that my personality is like a mirror, whatever you did in front of it, you would see it reflected back at you. When my friends yell at me, I will yell at them back. If they don’t provoke me first, I would not provoke them. Some friends like to blame me if something is wrong,I am not kind of pointing finger person who like to blame others. I just try to sort it out. I can be a very good friend if my friends are kind, honest, understanding, open-minded, forgive and not pointing finger. It takes all of these for achieving a long lasting friendship. I will get rid of the friends that bad for my life. This finding lead me to have this idea “My type of the girl (wife) have to be a very good person, so I can live with her for the rest of my life.” 28.08.2011 (C0nti.) Only that kind can bring out the best in me, and make me a better person. The question is: It’s very hard to find that person. If I met her, she might not available. If she does, she might not return my love. I know this sound complicated but it’s true. I told my friend these problems and he said if she can return yours, but you might not get her parents’ blessing. 29.08.2011

I am the kind of man who has a thousand kinds of men in one body and I understand characters’ behavior clearly made me think I could be a good actor. 28.08.2011

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Do What You Love to Do

It’s quite obvious to anyone that Steve loves what he does. He loves his company, loves the products that he gets to build, and loves the adoring community that rallies around him and his business every time there’s even a rumor about a new product or update.

Steve says: You’ve got to find what you love. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.

 “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness.” – Mark Twain

“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” – St. Augustine

“I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.” Oscar Wilde 

“Travel, in the younger sort, is a part of education; in the elder, a part of experience.” Francis Bacon 

 “No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.” – Lin Yutang

 “Every perfect traveler always creates the country where he travels.” – Nikos Kazantzakis
I feel awesome when I am writing something from my sweet memories. I’m rather fond of writing. I actually regard it as fun and a kind of therapy. I was plagued by self-doubt. I believe that writing and sharing have giving me back my sense of dignity.
The people that removes me from their facebook, it’s their loss. I don’t ever learn anything from that kind of people. It’s good because they leave that space for someone else who wants to add me. If you don’t like me, make your way out of my life. 26.08.2011
When you are a home person, you supposed to have no life. But for me, I have interesting life. I love reading on the Internet, writing a blog, watching awesome movie, playing video game, listening to music, and helping out in my parents’ houseshop. Here come to good part, I travel monthly and have fun with my drinking buddies.

As we grow older, our memories fade inevitably… I wish to keep them here, just between you and me… My Beautiful Diary

I don’t care about other people business as long as they keep to themselves and don’t spit on my life or step on my family’s shoe. If they do, it gonna be my business I have to take care of. 25.08.2011

People have a place where they belong. I feel I am not in my drinking buddies’ league because they drink better than I do and they have more money than mine. 26.08.2011 

 

 

You can teach a student a lesson for a day; but if you can teach him to learn by creating curiosity, he will continue the learning process as long as he lives.  ~Clay P. Bedford

Fall seven times and stand up eight. Japanese Proverb

One who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger. Japanese Proverb

Don’t criticize what you don’t understand, son. You never walked in that man’s shoes. Elvis Presley quotes  

‘I really like my life. I’ve arranged my life so that I can do what I want.’

‘Someone’s sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.’

To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to. 

Khalil Gibran 

The moment you think you understand a great work of art, it’s dead for you. 

Oscar Wilde 

“We can’t control what happens to us or our loved ones. People get hurt. There’s only so much we can do to protect ourselves, our children. The only thing we can do is we can be there for each other when we do fall down, to pick each other up.”

“Don’t feel pressured into doing things you don’t want to do.”

“Success is dependent on effort.” ~Sophocles

Skydiving is everyone’s bucket list and that is mine, too. A bucket list is a list of things such as activites that you are going to do before you die. 

    Self discipline is the best discipline. 

“The first and best victory is to conquer self.” — Plato Greek Philosopher

“Talent without discipline is like an octopus on roller skates. There’s plenty of movement, but you never know if it’s going to be forward, backwards, or sideways.”

“easy come, easy go,” 

What can’t you get enough of? I definitely can’t get enough of two things in particular – My Ex-GF and travelling. 12.08.2011

Life is not only about survive but also well-being.She receives Asian Youth Award. It is depend on the way you see that award. For some people, it is just a piece of metal. But I think for receiver, mean the world to her. She is the only Cambodian woman could get that award, I mean one from million youth. It is about recognition of her outstanding work in youth activities. She inspires me!🙂

Tonight I was so surprised to see my picture on Bayon TV news. My SBFF called me and he said “I saw you on Bayon TV news” I checked this news on Khmer TV online. This news is about Cambodian Youth Association and Ms. Sroy Socheath. Thank you, Bong Cheath for including this picture. I know SSEAYP because of herThanks for being such a wonderful inspiration to a hundreds youth all over the Cambodia.  http://www.khmerlive.tv/archive/20110808_BayonTV_Daily_News.php My picture is at 30:05 08.08.2011

Most of the money I make goes to travelling. 08.08.2011

I feel honor and gratitude to my friends and relatives who always ask me to join their trip, even though I have a little money. 08.08.2011

Today I was busy updating this topic https://dydara.wordpress.com/2011/06/14/my-art-of-living-or-beauty-of-life/ My hope is that this topic, after the many hours that I’ve put into it, will inspire you and help you to live an inspired life and meaningful life. 29.07.2011

I hadn’t travel for the last few months, that made me so stressful. But recently I have traveled and I felt so good. I realized that I need travelling. When I am a stay at home person I will sick and tired of life. Travelling is the only time I feel alive! I just got back from Phnom Penh today. A few day ago I went to Siem Reap and then Bangkok. 28.07.2011

People with a sense of responsibility and devotion to duty have always won the highest regard, those who are incompetent, lazy and lacking in a sense of duty have never been looked upon with approval. To be honest, I am a lazy man but I have a strong sense of duty. (A motivating awareness of ethical responsibility.) That makes me acceptable. 27.07.2011

I have a short attention span but when I have decided to do something, I put my all into it. I think it is good I can find a new thing. “Out with the Old, in with the new” I find myself getting bored easily with people but gratitude, love, obsession, fun, and friendship stand out above that thing and make me not get bored with them. Just because I have a short attention span doesn’t mean I can’t have a long one. I actually can pay attention for a long time unless things get really boring. 26.07.2011

I was so excited, the atmosphere was amazing.  I remember seeing the mascot walking around the ground and the girl with the Coke super cup come through cable before the match and was amazed at that day.  The match was incredible and ended with Chealsea winning Thai Premier League  all stars 4 – 0. I was especially impressed by all Chealsea’s players’ form. Excited Day😀 24.07.2011

 I just bought the tickets for Chealsea match. I will watch it live tomorrow. My dream will come true. I have come all the long way to Bangkok and try so hard to buy the tickets for the last minute. Super Excited😀 23.07.2011

Follows our heart, it will lead us to what we satisfied with. 

I was so surprised to see my name on suite101 dot com (The article about how to become a Magnet for attraction) 23.07.2011

I just realized that I become a quote man. A few weeks ago I had a conversation with a foreigner, what I talked that day I picked up from many quotes. And almost all of my blog topics I use quotes. 20.07.2011

Stick-in-the-mud = One who lacks initiative, imagination, or enthusiasm. Opposite Word of stick-in-the-mud: adventurer 

Sometimes, you’ve just gotta roll the dice. When you “roll the dice” you are taking a chance. We don’t know the outcome of the roll, if our numbers will come up, but we make the roll hoping we win.

No matter what happens, life still goes on. it’s the magic of risking everything for a dream nobody sees but you. You must take life as it comes. Sometimes hope is all you have got.

Work hard and be polite. 

I am not a decent man. What does a decent man know about life? But whatever I do, I rarely spit on other people lives first. 18.07.2011

Today, while I was trying to answer to application form for my new job, I found out about tricky question about Career Values. 14.07.2011

Knowing yourself leads to knowing your values. What we value shows up in how we spend our time, so spending your time on clarifying what you want, what you’re good at, and what it important to you is worth the investment.

Leadership guru, John Maxwell, in his book, “The Maxwell Daily Reader”, encourages us to ask ourselves, “Are the tasks on today’s agenda worthy of your life?” What we spend our time on is what we value.

Charles Spezzano speaks to the value of time. He says that people don’t pay for things with money; they pay for them with time. If you say to yourself, “In five years, I’ll have enough money to take the trip of a lifetime, then what you are really saying is that the trip will cost you five years — one-twelfth of your adult life. “The phrase spending your time is not a metaphor, “said Spezzano. “It’s how life works.”

Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.– Henry David Thoreau 

It is important to note that your career values change over time as you grow older and face new issues and decisions.

“He’d trained his entire life for one purpose, to be the greatest swordsman in the history of mankind. He’d just achieved his life’s ambition.” From The Warrior’s Way movie,  the words is so impressive.

Today I am greatly disappointed because I expected to be at Summer Youth Camp 2011, but someone forgot to type my name in the list.😦 I feel fatigue when I am disappointed, angry and broken heart. 11.07.2011

I’m not a caged bird. In other words, I don’t like to stay at one place. 10.07.2011

Many of my friends view me as a tough man but my family views me a weak person. 10.07.2011

Imagine all the people living life in peace – John Lennon

A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality – Yoko Ono

“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” -John Lennon

Do you have great love chemistry with your partner? When in love, you experience a variety of emotions. At times, love makes your spirit soar with happiness. At other times, falling in love can bring negative emotions such as jealousy. Then there are times when love treats you like a doormat. But that is the beauty of love. You have to live the experience to know what love is.

When you change your value, you change your way of thinking toward it. 08.07.2011

“To get back to my youth I would do anything in the world, except take exercise, get up early, or be respectable” Oscar Wilde

Young people need models, not critics

If experience was so important, we’d never have had anyone walk on the moon.  ~Doug Rader

Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely.  ~Auguste Rodin

Experience is not what happens to a man.  It is what a man does with what happens to him.”

Sometimes I am a man full of love, and some other time I am a cold man. 04.07.2011

Irony is that man created technology to simplify life but the truth is somewhere we’ve made it pretty complex for ourselves!

 Do for others what they’ve done for you.

“Read books! Books are open windows to the world”‘

I can’t believe myself “I am very extrovert and confident while the girl I fall in love with, is shy and quiet. 29.06.2011

I guess I still have a lot to get out of my system before I do the whole marriage trip, I’m one of those people that wants to try everything once before I die. And the good things twice.

Every coin has two sides. I n other words, there are two sides of every story. I spent almost half year to work in poor communities.  I was so humbled and put my all into it but what do I got was very disappointed at my old job. I’m a glass-half-full kind of guy who views everything as a worthwhile experience. I learned a lot from my western friends at where I worked. I spent almost 3 years to share on Facebook, I got so disappointed because some of my friends removed me. I think the reason why they did that was I shared too much.  Ok here come to good part: Because of my sharing and writing I get many compliments and I learn a great deal from my online friends each day, for that I appreciate, thank you so much! I can relate this quote to my real life. “People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people may accuse you of selfish motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you may win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. People who really want help may attack you if you help them. Help them anyway. Give the world the best you have and you may get hurt. Give the world your best anyway.” -–  Mother Teresa                            28.06.2011

 If you want to be a great person, you have to work hard. Also, sometimes you have to sacrifice, so as to fulfill your dream. You have to grab the chance. If you don’t grab the chance, it’ll be gone.  

Don’t get too attached to something or someone.

Success and failure in life is destiny. One moves up, other must move down.

“All things change, and we change with them.”


Everyone has a devil inside but you will never know until it comes out. When it does, you have lost to your own devil.

“What nourishes me also destroys me.”

Be patient and tough; some day this pain will be useful to you.

“Fortune and love favor the brave.”  

That man is wise who talks little (know when to hold your tongue)

A word is enough for a wise man.

Life is not being alive but being well (life is more than just being alive)

“Habits change into character.”

You’re gonna be okay. It just takes a little while to get used to.                                                        

Something about me is always about contradictions: I felt so pissed off at Thai invaders, but I still love my Thai host family and Thai friends. I wrote this status about two months ago and my Facebook friend asked me after reading this “Are you Cambodian or Thai?” She asked me in the polite way, if not, I’d have asked her this “What have you done for your country?” I am not sure that you love Cambodia more than I do and I would have answered this I spent half year to work in poor communities and I was youth ambassador who showed the world about Cambodian people that we are friendly and helpful. 26.06.2011

My family is a business family but my father, brother and me like reading so much if we came across anything in our reading that we wished to remember we would write it down in our book. 26.06.2011

Don’t be a person who wants so much without making any sacrifices. 25.06.2011

On 24th June 2011 I deactivated my Facebook account for a while and I will re-activate it on September 2011.

What a coincident! When I was watching a movie called hall pass, I found many things that they talked about in the movie match what recently I’ve talked here. 25.06.2011

Having the right partner is like hit the jackpot 25.06.2011

My blog shape my interest in psychology!😀 24.06.2011

I really want to promise myself this “I have to join Peace boat before I tie the knot.” But naz I can’t promise that, what if this program is no longer available and I met the girl who can change my mind. 24.06.2011

My bad temper is probably much worse than some people’s bad temper. What is wrong with me? This time I’m serious. The most powerful weapon is the human soul on fire. I know how to burn the fire and I also know how to put it out.

My Funny Status!I really don’t know how to express myself. Well, I’m nobody, no title, no affiliation! But you have no idea what I am capable of! You know who you’re dealing with. About to let you know. Heheeheehee🙂 just kidding. I just act tough and that’s how I got through everything🙂 Do you find this funny?

It would be wonderful when the person I desired reciprocated my feelings. 24.06.2011

My thinking and behave is like Western people. But one thing I do mind, when someone is 3 years old younger than me, called me Dara. I feel like they need to show some respect, if they are my foreign friends I feel it’s ok. I always call someone bong if that someone is 3 years older than me. 24.06.2011

When I meet a very good girl, I feel I don’t deserve her. To find the girl I deserve, I feel I deserve better! I think I am a simple man but something about me is not that simple!😀 WTF! 24.06.2011

Last nite I read one message, her message really brought smile to my face. I smiled in my sleep!😀 I reallylove her!🙂 It’s not wrong to love a person. You can ignore my love but you can’t ask me to stop loving you! 24.06.2011

It’s the power of gratitude. I don’t really enjoy living here but I do this for my parents. I don’t get mad at some people because of that as well!😀 23.06.2011

When you’re grateful for who you are and accept how other people are, you raise your tolerance and respect for others to another level. Your perceptions of yourself and others change and your relationships improve logically. Combining gratitude and forgiveness definitely skyrocket your relationships.

I’ve known for a real easy-going person to many friends but I’ve also known for a bad temper and very rude person to a few friends.  23.06.2011

My friend said to me: My mom chose the right name for me!😀 Dara has many meanings, what my friend tried to say: Dara means good at something. When you are good at talking we say dara talking, at drinking, we say dara drinking!😀

What I get after spending many years of sharing inspiring messages, I feel very disappointed and offended. Ok here come to good part: I learn a great deal from my online friends each day, for that I appreciate, thank you so much!😀 I improve my perception!😀 All these are for reading then it will make sense when it practically comes to life. For your own good and for my own good!

Because of my sharing and writing I get many compliments and at the same time many of my friends remove me! I didn’t blame them or hold a grudge against them! Because I’ve learned: It’s their right, they don’t accept more people into their lives, I can’t please everyone, their expectations may be based on a narrow, inaccurate view of me, my values could be wildly different from theirs. 23.06.2011

I am a man full of contradictions. I am a fast learner but a slow worker. Why slow? Maybe I take it very seriously. 22.06.2011

When I meet a very good girl, I feel I don’t deserve her. To find the girl I deserve, I feel I deserve better!😀 22.06.2011

Sometimes I can’t believe myself a small-town boy like me have done many things for my life. 22.06.2011

“No gift to your mother can ever equal her gift to you – life”

“When you find peace within yourself, you become the kind of person who can live at peace with others.”

“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.”

I just found out one ridiculous thing about my passion of SSEAYP. I really love SSEAYP but I didn’t spend time at Pre-departure training for new CPYs and I didn’t make a contribution to SSEAYP. But the good things I do in the name of SSEAYP and my parents. I should not talk about SSEAYP passion. 21.06.2011

★♥What I will miss the most when I deactivate my FB account is the girl of my dream’s new profile pictures. I wish I had enough money for a plane ticket to see her. I would like to have dinner and go to cinema with her once and for all. I don’t know if this is too much to ask. 21.06.2011

Before I deactivate my account I really want to ask her one question: How did you feel after reading my sincere appreciation topic for you? I mean did you feel moved by my words? I’m pretty annoyed you with this message for the last time before I go for a long time. 21.06.2011

I tell you one thing that you wouldn’t believe: I love travelling so much. But I am just a stay at home person. I stay at home almost 24 hours a day. Home is where work is for me. I really know how to make my life more exciting/interesting!  I feel awesome when I am writing something from my sweet memories and dreams. I’m rather fond of writing. I actually regard it as fun. 21.06.2011

Kids will be kids. Last year I wrote something in English to compliment one kid who is just 15 and he can write Khmer blog. He replied “I don’t like reading English, can you type Khmer? I replied “I am not good at typing Khmer.” And you know what he asked me. He asked “What is your nationality and you don’t even know how to type your own language?” Do you know the polite way to say this? Brother we are Khmer we should know how to type Khmer. That’s acceptable. Euphemism = a word or phrase used to avoid saying an unpleasant or offensive word: ‘Senior citizen’ is a euphemism for ‘old person’. 21.06.2011

One of the biggest reasons why I deactivate my account is: Some of my friends removed me from their Facebook, I know them personally. That really hurts. I feel very disappointed. If they are my online friends I would not give a damn shit about that. Writing from sweet memories, it depends on your personality, you can learn English but to write from your heart it needs your heart!

WTF is wrong with my life I just overcame a grief of relationship breakup last year, this year I keep thinking I am a useless person. Recently I’ve felt greatly disappointed with myself. Every time I go to Phnom Penh I have a great time and the same time I feel ashamed because my friends they drive a luxury car and they have high-paid job. And others friends can live and study abroad. I hope I can find motivation from this feeling. 20.06.2011

 

I am bored with my life. It doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy my life. I’ve lived 26 years. I’ve done a lot of things with my life, I mean almost all sorts of things, at the same time I think naz, not a lot thing. I want to try to do a skydive, scuba diving, bungee jumping, camping in the forest and many more.  20.06.2011

 

I just figured it out why I think and behave is like Western people, got me thinking this, I felt that 10 year ago. Is it from American movie? That time I was not a movie fan. I think learning English influence my personality. For example, I learned the word “punctual” I apply that in my life. 20.06.2011

Your lifestyle today is gonna determine the quality of the rest of your life more than anything else. I would like to have a quality of life. Now I will take a good care of my life and I will not drink too much alcohol.  Alcohol has a long term effect on our lives.  Take a good care of your life means be careful, don’t get into trouble, take a good care of yourself. It basically means to eat healthy, and live healthily so I don’t get sick from neglecting my needs or health. And also the obvious things like not to do anything potentially dangerous. I used to drink alcohol a lot and I could not sleep at regular time and I thought I am a man, it was ok. Right now I know it is not about proving myself a man, it is about taking a good care of myself. If I am not taking care of my health, I will hurt myself. From now on I will take a good care of myself. 19.06.2011 

Let’s see who laughs last. 19.06.2011

I’m sort of a scholar and my major is me. A scholar studying Dy Dara
An expert on Dy Dara. Think it over. Review my whole lifetime. I have studied the subject for a long time. Yesterday I learned this “Why I get offended easily by some people? Because now I has hypersensitive personality. 19.06.2011

I have the best parents in the world but I have the most unsupported brother on the planet! 19.06.2011

The girl of my dream, she is just so perfect. Let me count the ways. She is sweet, she is kind, she is very decent, she is understanding, she is so smart and the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. I am not saying these things to every girl!😀 19.06.2011

I want to be the joy and pride of my family. I want nothing more than to see that!😀 19.06.2011

“There is one thing and just one that stands out above all other things in my life: That word is gratitude.” Dy Dara 19.06.2011

People change over time, I used to write this “Since I don’t care about what other think of me, even their compliments to me, I don’t really feel happy.” But recently I feel the completely opposite I get offended easily by some people but this time their compliments make me so happy!😀 18.06.2011

★♥I have an important message to deliver. I will deactivate my facebook in the next few days and you guys can not see my account or search for me. It doesn’t mean I remove you all!😀 I am not sure when I will reactivate it!😀 If you have good things to share me, you can email me: darastarnet@yahoo.com Thanks! Take Care!😀 18.06.2011 My friend asked me “why?” I replied “I get headache when I write too much, I don’t enjoy facebooking like b4, I get offended by some people on FB! That’s why!😀 Take care buddy!😀 I can go back to my old life before 2008, I mean the year I used FB! :D” 

 

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain

Before, I was a yes man. When people invite me to their party or ask me to join with their trip. My answer was yes all the times. And now money is issue I like to say “No” 16.06.2011

I am officially obsessed with the writing, just saw one old picture I came up with this idea “I am a man full of contradictions. I could go through it and show the numerous contraction of me. I like to try new activities but I don’t like change the things I have. For example, I have worn the shirt for the last 6 years and even though I’ve had my old car since 2004 I still enjoy driving it!😀 Usually, I have an addictive personality but there are also times when lightning doesn’t strike twice in the same place. In other words, once is enough for me. I like to do it once and for all. 16.06.2011

Ever found yourself watching a movie and when the bad guy gets punished you feel satisfied? I don’t know why I always have this nightmare “My nightmare is like my favourite scene from the movie, it is about revenge. Sometimes I hunt the bad guy down but there are also times when they hunt me down. Everyone always wants to live his or her dreams but nobody wants to live a nightmare. I really love my life. Who knows, one day, there are some people spit on my life and they bring out the very worst in me and there’s not much in this world left to interest a man like me, I would fight that people with my life. In other words, I would end up my life with them. What a stupidest idea I’ve ever had!   The most powerful weapon is the human soul on fire. Don’t get me wrong, I had been raised on a philosophy of non-violence. I don’t know how some people were raised, but my family never used physical force. “If you can control one moment of anger, you can escape hundred days of sorrow” “Don’t let your today’s decision become your tomorrow’s regret!” 16.06.2011

Sometime we have wilderness periods in our lives!😀

Good communication, knowledge, friendliness, money, optimism, and persistence can take you anywhere. 

Travelling is the only time I feel alive!😀 15.06.2011

Life’s a journey. Enjoy the Ride!

Friendships: An Essential Part of Life

What should I do with my life?

This is a powerful question most of us ask ourselves at some point in life. What is it that I should do with my life? What is my purpose in life, my passion? Know what you want > Do what you love > Live your passion > Chase your dream > Be free > Stand for something > Get more out of life > Smile> Believe in yourself > Find the answer to the one question.

Always remember to be happy because you never know who’s falling in love with your smile.”                                                                                             

A warrior always keeps his sword sharp but he never draws it without a cause.

Justice without power is empty but power without justice is only violence.

Rushing things is never good. One step at a time.

Forgive is not something we do for other people we do it for ourselves to get well and move on.

Motivation is the driving force by which humans achieve their goals. Motivation is said to be intrinsic or extrinsic.

Intrinsic motivation and the 16 basic desires theory

Starting from studies involving more than 6,000 people, Professor Steven Reiss has proposed a theory that find 16 basic desires that guide nearly all human behavior. The desires are:

  • Acceptance, the need for approval
  • Curiosity, the need to learn
  • Eating, the need for food
  • Family, the need to raise children
  • Honor, the need to be loyal to the traditional values of one’s clan/ethnic group
  • Idealism, the need for social justice
  • Independence, the need for individuality
  • Order, the need for organized, stable, predictable environments
Extrinsic motivation comes from outside of the individual. Common extrinsic motivations are rewards like money and grades, coercion and threat of punishment. Competition is in general extrinsic because it encourages the performer to win and beat others, not to enjoy the intrinsic rewards of the activity. A crowd cheering on the individual and trophies are also extrinsic incentives.
★♥Over the past few years whilst writing for my blog, Psychology have become one of my greatest enthusiasms. Psychology is the science of mind and behavior. Its immediate goal is to understand behavior and mental processes by researching and establishing both general principles and specific cases. For many, the ultimate goal of psychology is to benefit society.
In this field, a professional practitioner or researcher is called a psychologist. and can be classified as a social scientist,behavioral scientist, or cognitive scientist.

‎4steps to maintain body in good immune system :
1) good diet ( more fruits & vegetable)
2) appropriate exercise
3) balance emotion
4) well sleeping habit

( sleep befiore 11, wake up early )

I discovered I need to help others and began doing so. In my life, I have done many things to prove myself something. Proving myself I can be a humble person and not afraid of any hardship! :DD I needed to test myself, mentally and physically. 10.06.2011

I think I have mood swings in Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD). A mood swing is an extreme or rapid change in mood. BPD Signs and symptoms Individuals with BPD can be very sensitive to the way others treat them, reacting strongly to perceived criticism or hurtfulness. Their feelings about others often shift from positive to negative, generally after a disappointment or perceived threat of losing someone. Self-image can also change rapidly from extremely positive to extremely negative. Oh I really have that😦 10.06.2011

There is a book “The Journey” by Brandon Bay who healed herself out. Deepak Chopra’s Quantum Leap has a more significant scientific breakdown on cells & our moods. So don’t feel repressed. You will fall sick easily. Same to memory effect. If you think love is painful each time u will end up in pain.

I learn a great deal from my online friends each day, for that I appreciate, thank you so much!😀 a few day ago I learned this “I know Anger gives rise to Cancer. just as regret & remorse.” When I read this got me thing this ” I should not feel regret and think I am a useless person anymore!😀

“It takes so many hours to write one page but it takes only 5 minute to read it. We should have reading habit!” Dy Dara 10 June 2011 I posted this on Khmer Author Chanbo Keo  She commented “It takes so many years of experiences to come up with one good thought. It take a whole day to prepare the words in phrases to express the thought, short enough for people to skim through in understand it in a few seconds. Let’s just hope everyone spend time reading and reflecting positively for their own benefits. :)”

Tonite I had mixed fortunes and so much fun, I played football video game and won my closest friend’s older brother 1 case of beer = 24 beers but I lost my closest friend’s younger brother’s friend 29 beers!😀 I can call it even!😀  09.06.2011 

Being rich isn’t everything in life. It’s about living a healthy life and respecting others.

The golden Rules for the world: “Treat others the way you want to be treated”

Jesus “Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you.

Confucius “you should not do to others what you would not have them do to you.”

 The power of gratitude: When you develop the habit of gratitude in any circumstances you also surrender your obsessions with controlling everything in your life and let the door open for Divine interventions and creative solutions. How gratitude can help me realize my dreams?

When you’re grateful for the good things in your life, you attract even more of blessings into your life. The more you experience this principle in your life, the more energy you can invest in making your dreams come true. “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

How did your personal life change through the practice of gratitude?

I could have never imagined how two simple words as “Thank You” would transform my life. I have been blessed behind my craziest dreams. However, the most amazing blessing is the ability to live in the instant with peace and joy whatever the situation. When I say “thank you” for the present moment, I raise my awareness of the “now,” and I authorize myself to live fully in any moment. I’m not on autopilot anymore and believe me, this is a life transformation experience.

How gratitude can influence my relationships?

When you’re grateful for who you are and accept how other people are, you raise your tolerance and respect for others to another level. Your perceptions of yourself and others change and your relationships improve logically. Combining gratitude and forgiveness definitely skyrocket your relationships.

Say it loud, write it, chant gratitude but above all never forget to do it. Because Gratefulness contains magic inside and has the power to transform your life.

Life happens when you’re busy making other plans” I came across this in my reading and I wrote it down in my book maybe about 4 years ago, a few weeks ago I read it again and I just understood it!😀

“Losers are people who are so afraid of not winning, they don’t even try.”

I didn’t like the idea about tie the knot I just had negative idea about it, until I read these words “Love, marriage, children all change a person no matter what. That’s life’s good works.” The words mean a lot to me! Thank you so much😀 For that I appreciate! :D Kryz C

I have this theory “I have youthful enthusiasm and many incredible times but I think I will have many bad years in the future.” Sadness and Happiness always happen in people’s life. I think I’d rather have the amazing life with a tragic end. Because what’s life without risks? I wouldn’t want to hold back or not do amazing things just because of what might happen. 07.06.2011

For the last few years I have developed my sense of gratitude, understanding, patience , forgiveness and self improvement.

I feel relaxed after having massage therapy. Before, money was not a problem, I like to have massage therapy or body scrub, some weekend I get my barber to wash my hair, sometimes I get my dentist to clean my teeth. But now I can’t afford all these things. Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them!😀 07.06.2011

“Learn everything you can, anytime you can, from anyone you can – there will always come a time when you will be grateful you did.”

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.”

“”Fear is The denial of the existence of the divine power that resides inside of you.” Carnelian Sage”

It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped – Anthony Robbins 

Each of us has a unique decision process that combines logic and intuition. However, when times are tough, and we feel challenged in our lives, it’s critical to be aware of our decision process and trust it.

Nobody else can help you with your future but one decision can shape your destiny. Wise decision making is not a luxury!

Choose your social environment carefully and express yourself: Do you feel that you’re not understood by your social environment because of your lifestyle, your beliefs or your passions? Do you sometimes feel lonely and suffer from it? Be aware, you’re not alone and someone, somewhere, is eager to hear your voice!

Stop justifying yourself or explaining your heart’s desires to people who are prisoners of conventional wisdom and status quo. Don’t blame them either, they simply won’t understand you because they’re conditioned by their own limiting beliefs.

Some people were all somehow unconventional and expressed similar experiences:

  • They were considered a bit crazy by their family, colleagues or society.
  • They had a dream they were obsessed with.
  • They realized that their social environment was not supportive enough
    for their vision to become a reality.
  • They found the courage in themselves to follow their own path.
  • They quit their country to live their dreams somewhere else.
  • They rebuilt their social network.
  • They expressed no regrets.

Love, marriage, children all change a person no matter what. That’s life’s good works. Be positive if not unconventional.

 Be in the moment and be successful earlier, younger in your life without compromising fun and enjoyment. Otherwise you will feel hard to catch up when you reach 30.

Some people are so afraid to stand up for their self, no matter what anyone does to him/her. That makes them a self-perpetuating victim of circumstance. I am not that kind! There are penalties to be paid for…….

People think that everyone must follow the same template for life: go to school, get a stable job, get married, have kids. If you deviate, you’re, well, deviant. I’ve never been afraid of any deviation. 

In my life, I have known many feelings from the most incredible time and proudest moment to the most painful and shameful. But right now, I don’t know about 2 important feelings, how it feels to be a married man and how it feels to be a father. 06.06.2011

Acting like I don’t care about some people, when deep down I really care♥ about my parents, lover and friends. I care what these people think of me and I don’t give a damn what other people say. I go my own true way. That works a whole lot better. What you see in others exists in you. Judge me all you want but keep the verdict to yourself. Ignorance is a bliss. :D  I do not spit on other people’s life first. Sometimes I can hurt someone, unintentionally. I am sorry about that!

“The most painful distance is when you’re not by my side, but you’re in my heart.” I like the words here. Love is love no matter what race or color, we feel the same way!

Make a difference in other’s lives by practicing little acts of kindness. Start by smiling often. Frown and you frown alone, but smile and the whole world smiles with you. Smiling is infectious; you can catch it like the flu. Someone smiled at me today, and I started smiling too.

Theodore Roosevelt shared:

Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though 

checkered by failure… than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor 

suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.


Every coin has two sides. It all depends on who uses the tool. Some of us make use of amazing communication tools while others can turn them into distractions, shallow entertainment or even possible forms of escapism from real life challenges. We should always remember that we are the ones in charge of our lives, no matter what. It takes some clarity, focus and persistence though.

If one feels like they are wasting time then they should probably use the time for something that makes them feel good/productive. The process should not be a draining experience. 

It seems way too easy these days to get caught up in the “passive life” and not going out and creating experiences. This post serves as a good checks and balances reminder for me.

We cannot live alone in this world; we need each other’s help. But our own expendability, that’s all we can ever really count on in this life.

Even if I had the choice I’d still have done the same thing.

We have own destinies. You go your way, we’ll go ours.

Be patient. Because one moment of impatience can ruin a whole life. 

Living a happier life often seems to be about living your big dreams and putting in a lot of work over a long time.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain

You might also want to volunteer in a community project or something that will help others. In doing this, you will also feel a different happiness.

“Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” Marcel Proust

You look as if you have lived a life. So you understand that everything changes. Everything ends.

The tendency to desire what is best for the other.

 I’m the only one who can help myself get there right now.

We don’t care what other people say. We go our own true way. That works a whole lot better.

“The world we have created is a product of our thinking; it cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”–Albert Einstein

Emotions are the hardest pattern to get rid of.

I have written about 30 pages about my life and it is just one third of me. Read on to know what I mean. I consist of more than just my past. In fact, I think about it, my past is only one third of who I am. The other two parts consist of who I am today, as well as who I hope to be in the future

Many people like to ask me this question “Have you ever felt sad?” Because when they see me I always smile and laugh all the time. But they don’t know the half of me.

Recently when I go to PP I have a great time and at the same time I feel I am
useless. I observe how my friends can just seem to flow through life, achieving breakthrough result after result and basically live the life of dreams! They have that dream job, their business is successful, they live in that dream house, drive the
luxury cars and have the perfect family! What do I have now? nothing just good 
memories.‎ Today I told this to my friend, he replied “while you were having fun, they were trying so hard that’s why they have today. My friend have the guts to be brutally honest with me. I like that. 05.06.2011

On 30 May 2011 I was so happy because I found one book, it is my collection of good sayings (mostly written in Khmer) I could not find another 56 pages. Collecting quotations have been my hobby since I was in high school.
My own motivational message: I do this for someone or something. Don’t get me wrong, when I do good things I don’t have selfish motives.
Youth Camp for Asia’s future is the second best program after SSEAYP but I like my fellas AYC more because I met one perfect girl.
On 05th June 2011 I changed my name on Facebook to Gung Ho Zeal which means extremely enthusiastic about doing something. I want to remind myself about the opposite meaning of these words. Too much of something is bad. Hence, too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. Like most things, moderation is the key. Finding the balance is very important for me. I must bear this in mind at all times because I have an addictive personality.
“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans”
If you could create a new English word, what would it be and what would it mean?
Daraism = A person who has a 100 kind of personality in one body with multifarious interests and has a great passion for life. 
on 30.05.2011 I created one English word daraism.

★I can’t reduce the time spend facebooking but I can stop using it for a while. When I am on FB I have many things to write. I have addictive personality and I always get headache when I read and write too much. Bye bye for a while. Take Care!😀 29.05.2011

 WTF is wrong with me, the last two days I feel like rushing fluid sound in back of neck by base of skull! I think I should take a break from Facebook and my blog again. 29.05.2011
Love is the bond of perfection.
“Sometimes you have to lose something, to realize what you had.” My version I didn’t know how it feels to lose a loved one until it happened.
Today I’ve learned one good sentence from one great man “It does take a good-hearted and potential person to help our pity society” Vicheth Heng At everyone: Did you learn anything new today? 29.05.2011
Absolutely ridiculous about my facebook, many people I know on facebook like to comment and click like my status but the people I know personally, they don’t, I mean only a few people!😀 always contradiction about me!😀 29.05.2011

Because of my sharing I meet many outstanding people on Facebook. 28.05.2011

I’m not sure whether to publish one topic called my art of living or not. I’m hesitating even as I write this topic because some points seem I am bragging about myself and some points show bad images of my personality. But it’s one of the most useful topics I’ve written because it’s about how to not be bored of life and my tips to inspire you to do what you want and have what you want. 28.05.2011

Every time I was with my ex-lover, in that moment it was as if we became one person.

I asked my friend who major in Psychology about sth I told her about half-truth and she could get another half truth right, it’s impressive!😀

There are two sides of every story. Sometimes I like to take a deep breath, my father told me it’s not good, it’s like you complain about sth. I understand his point, but I replied this can release stress!😀

Five Keys To Right Speech
1. It is spoken at the right time.
2. It is spoken in truth.
3. It is spoken affectionately.
4. It is spoken beneficially.
5. It is spoken with a mind of good will. 

Love is thinking about them all day and all night no matter how hard you try to stop. Love is every moring you wake up he is the 1st face that pops in your mind and the last face b4 u fall asleep. Love is the tickles that you get in your tummy every time you see their face in ur head. 

Love every moment of it and you will be fine.

I’m so obsessed with my blog. Sometimes even I am having dinner some ideas come to my mind, I need to include this picture and this words for my topics. I am working on two topics and then I came up with another two topics. Totally insane!😀 27.05.2011

Can fate be changed by regrets?

Can fate be changed by feeling guilty?

 “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” ~ Confucius This sentence explains to me “I don’t understand why the panting is so expensive” because I don’t see its beauty. 27.05.2011

I think I’d rather have the amazing love life with a tragic end. Because what’s life without risks? I wouldn’t want to hold back or not do amazing things just because of what might happen. I think life is about feeling rather than sitting by the sidelines and being too afraid to really live.

A great relationship is when you feel completely at home with another person. You can talk to them about anything and you don’t need to always be kissing them to feel happy. They bring out the best in you, and make you a better person.

If It’s just perception then why does it matter?

Perception is how we personally view things; it’s our version of reality. When we don’t know someone personally, our perception is based on the signals we pick up from their words, body language, expressions, eye contact, etc. We also sense their degree of self-confidence and it influences our perception.

Have you ever said: “I don’t know why, but I just don’t trust that person”? See, your mind didn’t have a logical reason for your lack of trust, but you still didn’t trust them. It’s because your perception was being influenced on a subconscious level. Perception may not be absolute reality, but it is your reality and that’s all that matters in a situation like this.

To me confidence has always been the core of self development. This year I applied one program, I need to write a one-page essay, when I read the topic first thing came to my mind, where can I get the ideas to write this topic and then I told myself I can do it and just give me some time. You know what? I could write almost 2 pages and then I selected only the best ideas to fit for one page.

“Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it. The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning.” –Joseph Campbell

My dream job about being a radio talk show host, I plan to read psychology books, read more about Khmer advice words. And ask my friends who works at Radio about how to be a good speaker on Radio. I would do this for my dream job but now my plan sucks! I like one man’s idea he commented I should volunteer first on Radio and then I have to make my name later. This is the best idea I got for this dream job. 27.05.2011

Last nite I watched exhibition on TV made me miss my time!😀 Life is very interesting when on Youth exchange program. I didn’t join any youth exchange program for the last 3 years. I thought I had two and it’s enough and let’s that place for next generation. “If you are successful, you may win false friends and true enemies. succeed anyway.” Mother Teresa 27.05.2011

In English, I always remember good sayings and that messages speak to me, the rest I don’t remember. And in Khmer I always remember Khmer jokes I can even remember when where and who I learned from!😀 27.05.2011

Why I am not good at remember people’s name but I remember my memories with them.

From the most incredible time and proudest moment to the most painful and shameful. I have had mixed fortunes in my life as I discover. 27.05.2011

A few months ago I had a party with my friends, my friend made fun of me by saying, you are having a drink more than others, doing a talk more than other and eat more than others. And I replied with something made them laugh “But pay less than you guys rite?” I don’t know why sometimes I like to embarrass myself. 26.05.2011

I value honesty greatly in people. Living an honest life, but not always.

On facebook educated person like my inspiring messages but in real life fun-loving people like my personality because of my sense of humor. When I am writing this I feel that only a few people can understand what I am talking about and I wonder myself why I wrote this.

Why I always feel miss someone or something so much because I attach too much importance to that people or events and I am busy doing nothing. If you have any question related to people feeling don’t forget me and I will try to answer that questions. It’d be my pleasure!😀 26.05.2011

In a gentle way, you can shake the world. Gandhi Mahatma.

I don’t know why everything of me always about contradiction or I mean opposite reality which it seems to be. I am a man full of contradictions. I could go through it and show the numerous contraction of me. When I started my blog, I didn’t expect so many people have read my blog. My Blog has 150 average daily view But when I expect many people will support my plan about being a Radio Talk show, I got a few. 26.05.2011

“Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.” – Nicholas Sparks

Love is the master-key that opens the gates of happiness, of hatred, of jealousy, and, most easily of all, the gate of fear. How terrible is the one fact of beauty!

Still thinking about stop sharing and at the same time got me thinking because of my sharing I got many compliments from many people, if I stop now I feel like I made them disappointed and that led me to realize that their sweet words is my source of inspiration and it means a lot to me. 25.05.2011

I thought of stop using Facebook and my blog as well. Any one support this idea? if you against, can you click like this status, thanks!😀 your comment and your like will make me decide on this matter. Thanks!😀 25.05.2011

Heading to PP soon and I will not use FB for a while! I am gonna miss FB! :D The bad days make the good ones better! Let’s do something fun!😀 Let’s create a memory! To a good life!😀 20.05.2011

Contradiction: Acting like I don’t care about some people, when deep down I really care♥ about my parents, lover and friends.

Contradiction: Usually I am a flexible but at other time I stick to the rules.

Contradiction:  How much I love it, sometimes become how much I am sick and tired of it.

At first I thought I didn’t get disappointed because a few people support my plan about being a Radio Talk show. “Expect Nothing And You Won’t Be Disappointed” The more you expect, the more disappointed you will be. I should not feel depressed when things are not going my way. Naz that’s just how I lied myself, when deep down I really get big disappointed, which have led me to want to stop sharing. :( 19.05.2011

I used to know one man he said to me, hey bro, I love and like you, and then I never I see him say hi or ask me how are you? you know what, “The language of friendship is not words but meanings.” Right now I don’t see my online friends who used to comment with me a few year ago. “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart♥” 19.05.2011

Kimi Jackson’dreams and hobbies exactly like mine. But she is living in her dream. On other hand, I am just a daydreamer.
Dream of long-term travel and living abroad. Interests in writing and photography and love of travel and learning.
quit her job as a lawyer in order to pursue her dream of long-term travel and living abroad.  
For me, I choose Peace boat over marriage. Peace boat, sail around the world for 3 months!  I can’t believe there is someone who has that things exactly like mine. I’ve never been afraid of any deviation. 19.05.2011

What’s got into me? Recently, I feel pissed off easily. I’ve lost my ability to hold a moment of anger. 19.05.2011

I thought of taking a long break for writing for my blog or even stop writing for it. As this sharing might come to an end, as most things do. But I still do it because one girl is willing to edit some of my topics. Thank you so much and I appreciate that. You energized me to write. If it wasn’t for you I would have stopped it. Ashley Phoenix 19.05.2011

‎”លុយសំខាន់សម្រាប់មនុស្សប្រើប្រាស់ តែប្រយ័ត្នកុំអោយលុយប្រើវិញបាន!

‎” The best way to destroy your enemies is to make friends with them

“The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.” Confucius I’ve heard of it before, a few day ago I saw it again, got me thinking. I shouldn’t write about myself anymore but what I write is not about bragging about myself. It is about sharing inspiring messages. I hope you guys see the way I see it!😀 19.05.2011
“Who was the fool, who the wise man, beggar or king? Whether poor or rich, all’s the same in death.”
“swallow your pride today for the better tomorrow” Ashley Phoenix
 Some people saw my words and said to me, “You are a wise man!” No I am not! “Wise men may not be learned; learned men may not be wise”. Wise man is a person who uses the mind creatively and he makes the right decision. I think I’ve earned myself a nickname for my personality “Fool-Wise Man” the half fool and the half wise man. haha It’s actually kind of funny and contradictory what they mean. Because of that way I can get through everything. 19.05.2011
I used to dislike a snooty and an unfriendly person and I thought “Who the hell do they think they are? I don’t give a damn about that.”I apologize for any offence caused by my words. I always behave in a pleasant and friendly way towards everyone. But I met a few people of this kind. And now I realized that that’s their own preference and they don’t accept more people into their lives. 18.05.2011
I am just a stay at home person.For some unknown reasons, I’m feeling fresh and so happy and then disappointed about something. I love spending time on facebooking. I smile and laugh alone while watching movie. I think I am a crazy person and I think I am having midlife crisis. I should go out and see some friends. 18.05.2011
I spent 12 hours for making one video clip. Behind the perfect work there’s a lot sweat and preparation. 18.05.2011
How much you love it, someday it will become how much you sick and tired of it. 18.05.2011
 The more I write about my dreams the more disappointed I get.😦 Recently, I wrote about my dream job, the girl in my dreams and the journey in my dreams I just realized that I am a crazy person. I am such a dummy. Get real, boy! 18.05.2011
I am blessed and cursed with my personality! 18.05.2011
I love Hong Kong movie (TVB tv series) I like Hong Kong lifestyle. I really admire its movie lines!😀 18.05.2011
Writing is not about liberating your thought but its about collaborating ideas and make it meaningful.
I am more than surprised. I bet you earned yourself a nickname for your talent. Do you have any? Like the ones your friends gave you.
Very proud to see you being very courageous.
Now I like playing with English words!😀 17.05.2011
Last nite I drank too much beer I feel like I will fed up with alcohol for month! 17.05.2011
Contradiction of  me: Usually I enjoy almost every aspect of life but not always, sometimes I feel like I am sick and tired of almost everything. I am an unpredictable person. 17.05.2011
“Young people are the future of the country, and young Cambodians will one day be leaders in their own country,” EU chargé d’affaire Rafael Dochaeo Moreno said.
 There ain’t no such thing as Superman.
Sometimes I wonder about bad people’s action, how can they live with that?When I have done something wrong, my conscience will blame and it will be on my conscience, I blame myself for days or even months. Most people can’t forgive others but like to forgive their self, but for me I like to forgive others but not myself. 17.05.2011
Dont fall into the trap of pretending everythings fine when you know it isnt. I think I just did! I feel like I am a sick man and I need help. I am just a stay at home person 
 and I just help out in my parents’  shop. I don’t like to work for other people, I ain’t big on having a boss.
I am 27 years old. I still have no sense of direction. I now realize that I am 3 years away from 30. Not that 30 is old. Im just not where I want to be in my life right now. No real job to do, thats how my life is at presentI do not know what Im doing, where Igoing, or even who I am. Many things I thought I was certain of have now become questionable. “Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have.” Dale Carnegie I know what Ive done with my life so far is quite good. My question is right now I feel hopeless and I need some words to cheer me up, thank you so much for taking your time to read my story and sorry for bothering you. 17.05.2011

Contradiction of  me: From my lecturer’ view: Initially, as my student, I observed the applicant as someone who was not very hardworking or serious with what he’s doing. (When I read this sentence: I thought Oh my god how can this letter help me and then I read on) I noticed that he’s smart and quick-witted but he did not give his best in his endeavors. Despite this, I’ve always seen a great potential in him. After a few years of knowing and working with him, both in school and in youth association volunteer activities, I saw a great improvement and change in him. Quite frankly, I was surprised. He became focused, and started to work hard for continuous and never ending self improvement. He has become passionate about world peace, about self development, about volunteer works to help others, about building mutual understanding between different peoples, and the like. He is now a very strong person who can be used as a model for other youths to follow. He has set a path for youths who wish to pursue continuous self development and enlightenment. 

Master your mind, design your destiny.

On July 22, 2009 My dearest friend wrote this email to me: It was great honor to know you and it’s always great fun to be around with you. You’re someone born with joy and love. I like that. I just realized that I am born with joy and love. I really love everyone even though who hates me. but you are even better than me. You are born to be loved. Within your life, you are being loved. Everyone lovesyou! I really admire you. 15.05.2011

I hope tomorrow I can publish two topics on my blog. The first one called “How to not be bored of life” And the second one called “They are not worth it” it is a story with moral lesson!😀 hehehehe just think of these topics make me exciting!😀 15.05.2011

Controversy of the Day: Usually a confident man that stands up for what he believes in, but not always. I mean, sometimes, it’s kind of like the opposite of everything I stand for. 15.05.2011

I tagged one girl to write one sentence describing exactly what she thinks of me. She wrote “I can say that you’re really an understanding person :)” and I don’t know her personally, but I can tell you that she is also an understanding person. What you see in others – exists in you. 

I just realized If you have a great sense of appreciate you can write a very good compliment speech! Dy Dara 15.05.2011

If I cannot have good friends or lover, I’d rather have none. 15.05.2011

“No one can hurt your feeling unless you let them or deserve it.” “Ignorance is a bliss” But sometimes we have to think about their criticism. One good sentence cannot apply to all situations, but most of them do. Let good sayings, be our guide! If you can understand what I mean here and keep that in mind you will become a happy person. It works wonders for me. Hope it helps you like it has helped me.😉 I want you to be as happy as I am.😀 14.05.2011

I just realized I have a strong sense of humor because many people laugh at my jokes. I’m a joker if I’m in the mood to crack some jokes. Fun is what I am doing!😀 14.05.2011

Contradiction of The Day: I can have good communication with my god brothers and many friends, but I just can’t have good communication with my own brother. I have the most unsupported brother in the world. But Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate him!😀 14.05.2011

Unbelievable!😦 I posted to many facebook groups just a few people support my plan about being a Radio Talk show. “Expect Nothing And You Won’t Be Disappointed” and I am good at seeing the humor on my hurtful situations. 14.05.2011

Tonight I just saw my niece did something incredible, she is just 6 months and she can suck her toe, unbelievable, I can’t believe my eyes, that’s amazing. 14.05.2011

Home is where your heart find happiness, comfort, and security.

A man can love a million girls, but only a real man can love one girl in a million ways! I feel that way for 2 two girls so far, my ex-lover and the girl of my dream!😀 13.05.2011

The girl: I don’t know just hope there a lot of guy will do that.
Dara: I met one perfect girl, but I don’t deserve her!😀
Do you know what she replied me?
The girl: So hope you’ll find someone you can deserve ..
These words made me smile. I will try to convince her about this “Love me for who I am, not who I was. I can be whoever she wants me to be.”

I used to think “I’ll just be happy when I can get out of here. I am not sure where I want to live. I know I can go wherever I want, see whatever I want to. I’ve been to a lot of places.” You don’t have to give me the “There’s no place like home” speech. I’ve heard it. But now I know “It’s the people that make the place.

 No road is long with good company – Turkish Proverb, Similar English and Irish sayings Long loneliness is better than bad company.

Happy His Majesty Norodom Sihamoni’s 58th Birthday. King of Cambodia

Your Majesty:

I wish HM the King happy birthday. Hail to the king!
Thanks for all the sacrifices you and your family make for our collective freedoms.

It is my sincere pleasure to convey warm wish and congratulations from me on Your Birthday, I wish all the best.

Lots of love From Dy Dara 13.05.2011

I am not bragging or anything, I am not good at everything but I am good at what I do!😀 13.05.2011

 6 years ago, I really don’t like English quotations as much as I like now! I feel that good sayings are simple, short and witty but they give a direct message that will reach the heart and mind of me, they are condensed truth that are evident in our daily life. I love how they express! 13.05.2011

Contradiction of the day: Soft spoken and loud spoken 12.05.2011

Sometimes I regret about giving up my big chance of getting an MBA scholarship to China. If it wasn’t for that, right now I would be in China. That time I was busying with my old job. 12.05.2011
Do you know why I accept someone who I don’t know? Because I want them to get my inspiring messages, but not so many people get that. 12.05.2011 
I am good at seeing the humor on my hurtful situations.
If I had this job, it would be like I get paid for doing something I love! 12.05.2011
I can write something from my stupid mistakes into good lessons because of my self-awareness and with humble attitude I can expand that idea. 12.05.2011
I could not be more proud than to hear that I have a positive influence on someone, but so far I heard none of that. 12.05.2011.
I have an important message to deliver! I am interested in being a Radio talk Show host to discuss good knowledge of many different subjects including love, study, and everyday life. It is kind of an open topic show – our listeners can call to discuss the issues of the day and I can share my ideas and to cheer them. I could not be more proud than this job.

My plan: I would like to rent one hour for five days from radio station for my program.

What is the most popular radio station in Phnom Penh?

The program cannot happen without sponsors and supporters.

Does anyone interested on advertising your business with this program? Thanks!

 

I think I am good at talking about inspiring messages and it’s a waste of my talent that I am just a stay at home person. My job: I just help out in my parents’ shop.

The language of wise people is not words but meanings.

I believe in these two phrases “One sweet phrase can keep people warm for the whole winter.” And “Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as a sword, but wisely spoken words can heal.” 12.05.2011
“The language of wise people is not words but meanings. ” Dy Dara 12.May.2011
When I thought I couldn’t go on, I forced myself to keep going.
My success is based on persistence, not luck
Estee Lauder
I look like a snooty but I am not, I have neither inferiority nor superiority complex with myself!😀 11.05.2011
Sometimes, I am talkative Sometimes, I am a quiet man. 11.05.2011
Just think of stop sharing inspiring message on FB make me unhappy. As this sharing might come to an end, as most things do. After 3 years of sharing on FB, I think of stop sharing it.  My sharing inspired by SSEAYP family, I have been taught and energized by them.  I thought “I want to make a difference in people’s lives, I mean in a positive way and my contribution to society. 11.05.2011
 ☆♥Love whoever is around to be loved.

-Kurt Vonnegut

Some people saw my words and said to me, “You are a wise man!” No I am not! :D  I am just a copy cat. I’m completely unoriginal. From copy to innovation! “Wise men may not be learned; learned men may not be wise”. Wise man is a person who uses the mind creatively and he makes the right decision. 11.05.2011

Today I made about me 2 because I could not edit about me page, there is some of kind of messy, so I decided to make this one.  https://dydara.wordpress.com/about-me-2/ 11.05.2011

I wanted to share these words, I hope this is not the last inspiring message on FB “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” Helen Keller. A few year ago, I was a broken heart man but I had big budget for travelling but now I am broke (no money) but I am so happy. I prefer now, happiness is priceless!😀 10.05.2011

What I shared on FB maybe annoy to some people, I am sorry about that, from today onwards you’ll see less of my status.

Tonite I had so much fun at my best friend’s nephew’s BD party. Thanks man, u made my day! tonite made me think of one man’s sentence that he wrote to me ” You’re someone born with joy and love.” he is rite about that.😀 10.05.2011

I have 3699 Friends on FB, today I asked one question in my status, no one didn’t even bother to answer my question. Who am I to share inspiring messages, I think I should just write on my blog because the world is still viewing my blog. 10.05.2011

She replied to my above status. Khmer Author Chanbo Keo 

You can’t just look at the number of clicks and feel valued/discouraged by it because sometimes, people absorb your thoughts today but may not respond 30 years from now. If you can’t retain patience, you will be defeated by your own high expectation of others. Let people absorb at their pace, and rather wait to see the result years from now. I can secure you with my own personal experience: I just had a person coming to me this week and gave me his thanks for an advice I gave him since 1979. Dara: Thanks!


I am a man full of contradictions. Today’s controversy that I have with my personality: Sometimes I am full of energy and strength but at other times I feel fatigued and I’m lazy and tired. Why I cannot achieve consistency? 10.05.2011

I want to have the strength of a lion and the soul of a poet. I hope I am on my way to have these things. Judge me all you want, but keep the verdict to yourself.😛 10.05.2011

I’ve never really cared much for materialism – Drink whisky with Australia steak are more to my taste (= what I like)Taste= Ability to appreciate what is beautiful! :D Some people don’t have their own taste that they don’t see something beautiful in their lives. “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” ~ Confucius Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them! (In Khmer) I am not Sopheareas Niyum but Ros Niyum!😀 10.05.2011

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”

Don’t fall into the trap of pretending everything’s fine when you know it isn’t. I think I just did!

“There is no greater love than the one who lays down his life for another.” as spoken by Jesus.

Let me tell you something about men. They’re told to be tough and hard. But inside, they’re quite soft and gooey.🙂

I have a verystrong feeling for one Pinay, what’s got into me? Recently, not a day goes by I don’t think about her. We don’t have anything much in common. She is more of discreet and very decent girl. But I am not. Love is funny, isn’t it? 09.05.2011

Today’s contradictions: When I am happy, I am extremely happy. When I am sad, I am extremely sad. That’s why my friend views me as extraordinary, he is right about that. 09.05.2011

Listen to the positive thought every time. The influence of words is timeless, let them work for you, and remember to always carry🙂 a smile in yourheart!

Today’s controversy that I have with my personality, I like being around people but sometimes, I want to be alone. 08.05.2011 

When talking about sharing, I am interested in being a Radio talk Show host to discuss good knowledge of many different subjects including love, study, and everyday life. It is kind of an open topic show – our listeners can call to discuss the issues of the day and I can share my ideas and to cheer them up.

There are two sides of every story. I mean, when someone think of me as a bad person, what he or she saw just some of half-truths. I think I am not that bad and this also apply to this theory when someone says I am a good person. I think I am not that good. I can write something to make myself sound good and it is true but at the same I also can write something to make myself sound bad as well. 08.05.2011

I mean, I am so happy to give my lovely mom mother’s day cake today! Super excited! :D I bought for my mom but I was the one who ate the most part! 08.05.2011

 Today is mother’s day! I’d like to say happy mother’s day to my lovely mother.Thank you so much for everything that my mother have done for me. Thanks for being such a wonderful mommy for me. :D ‘m proud of that. I love my mom the most in the whole world. I would like to express my deepest gratitude and appreciation towards my mother, who forebear pain and discomfort in bringing me up to adulthood. I will always be indebted to her. This is my sincere appreciation. My Parents, My Hero and My God: The most special people in my I love my parents with all my♥heart. Last but the least. I’d like to say happy mother’s day to my 8 host families in 7 countries. You all are more than just host. Always on my mind!😀 08 May 2011

Food For Thought: Life’s short and you gotta go after what you want because it sure as heck ain’t just gonna fall in your lap.

Today’s contradictions: I think I am a real easy-going with the utmost patience, I have that things more then normal people but if someone brings out the very worst in me, my bad temper is probably much worse than some people’s bad temper. 07.05.2011  

Youth is a once in a lifetime gift. Make it memorable and meaningful. I don’t want to look back on my life and think, “I wish I did that.” Or “My precious youth is gone I’m all old.” 07.05.2011

I want my autobiography to be called “A man who has a great passion for life and a man full of contradictions” What do you think of this name? Do you have any better titles? Thanks!😀 06.05.2011 My Online Best Friend‘s idea: ‎”the paradox man fighting for the life” wow it’s awesome idea! Thanks to my OBF!😀

I am a man full of contradictions! From today onwards I will find one idea of contradictions of my personality every day. I want to know how many of them I can find about myself and when I gonna run of ideas about this. Today start with I have sometimes participated in the spending spree. But I occasionally save my money. 06.05.2011

What’s got into me? I always busy updating this updating that. But I think this is better than wasting money on alcohol and drinking alcohol is also self-destruction habit. By writing and sharing make my existence meaningful.🙂 05.05.2011

When I was in Tokyo I was amazed and impressed by the way they walk. People might as well be running in the subways they walk so fast. I can understand why this country is so rich. Japanese people are so hard working! When I was on travelling I learned this” Even one small city have its own milk factory where it can supply a whole city. How about us, Cambodia? I don’t mean to blame anyone. I’m a glass-half-full kind of guy. I still support our gov. 05.05.2011

Sometimes, I get my barber to wash my hair and clear my pimples. Today I feel fresh after having these things. Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them!😀 04.05.2011

Many of my friends admire my life and they are so rich, however, they do not seem satisfied enough. Made me think if I had that money I would make my life more interesting.😀 04.05.2011

What you see in others – exists in you. Some people view me as a very rude person. Maybe they did something to me first. Before, my personality was like a mirror, whatever you did in front of it, you would see it reflected back at you. But now I am more of this person: I can’t become a monster to fight against a monster.😀 04.05.2011

When you see how I drink alcohol, you’ll think I’m addicted to alcohol. But I am not! You see only with the eyes, you are easy to fool. When it comes to judge people I have to spend a long time to get to know them well before judge that people, so it is not gonna be no misjudge. 03.05.2011

 Last month today, I’ve learned these sentences from my father “When people feel hungry they feel one thing, when they get full, they feel others feelings. And when they feel sleepy, they feel something else.” My father means people change over time. That idea led me realized about this: The words can apply to this situation as well. When you love someone, you feel one thing, when stop loving that person, you’ll feel other things. 03.05.2011

I like helping people, but one thing I wonder the people I’ve helped, they couldn’t return my favors. I didn’t expect that return. But there are always someone else does me a great favor, I didn’t do something for that someone to deserve that favor.  I don’t like to owe someone’s favor, but I am still deeply indebted to many people. For that I gratitude and appreciate.🙂 We cannot live alone in this world; we need each other’s help. Help what we can with others in need…the world is ONE big family! :D 03.05.2011

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” In my life, I have known many feelings from the most painful to the most incredible time, from shameful to proud moments.  I am 27 years old. I do not wish to be any other age because my life at 13 was nowhere as exciting and enjoyable as my life at 27.Why at this age I feel like I have enjoyed my life enough! 03.05.2011

Not a day goes by I don’t think about two people and two journeys! The two people are my ex-lover and the girl of my dreams. And the journeys are SSEAYP and peace boat, the journey in my dreams. The ex-lover and SSEAYP are the past, but you know, in life, the first act, always exciting. The girl of my dreams and the journey in my dreams are just the dreams. But these dreams give me smile and hope!🙂 03.05.2011

I have this crazy idea “When I get married my parents will give me something, if I could trade that something for participating in Peace boat, I would and I would not regret about it. I choose Peace boat over marriage. Peace boat, sail around the world for 3 months!🙂 02.05.2011

Even though I talk openly, honestly, and directly with people, they still don’t understand about me. Am I hard to understand?🙂 02.05.2011

I am a man full of contradictions! My greatest enthusiasm is travelling. But I also enjoy being a stay at home. I’m at home almost 24 hours a day. No one knows about this. Home is where I work. What is wrong with me? Maybe this is what I called “I enjoy almost every aspect of life:)” 02.05.2011

I am a man full of contradictions!🙂 I am a very simple man. All I really want is everything. who knows what it is in the world I am talking about? 

When I have decided to do something, I put my all into it. 

Cambodia Thailand conflict continues. Recently, I Am Interested in All Things Military. Who knows, one day, our country need us. 02.05.2011

There is a danger in loving somebody too much.

It’s funny how someone can break your heart and you still love them with all the little pieces. I still love that someone and I doubt that I will ever stop loving them. To the world you may be one person, but to me, you are the world. The world is empty without you! You are the passion in my life!

My friend see my passion for writing, he suggested me to publish a book. I replied I don’t have a lot of original content on my blog. I don’t want to exploit someone’s work. But today that idea led me to write my autobiography by Dy Dara, a man full of contradictions!🙂 01.05.2011

I wonder how was the first human being created. by who? someone will answer God, I want another answer. I am always amazed and impress by each organ of the body has a primitive consciousness of its own which allows it to perform specific functions. That’s amazing!🙂 01.05.2011

I am always amazed and impress by the wit of the inventors who are able to invent the words to describe the different feeling of people.

I like old sayings because old sayings are simple, short and witty but they
give a direct message that will reach the heart and mind of the readers, they are
condensed truth that are evident in our daily life. I love how they express, that
over thousands of years the proverbs are still quite factual despite the 
changing times.😉

I don’t know this is called psychic or not.  On 07.11.2011 that day I danced and had fun on the boat, that time I thought this year water festival will have something special happen. The Phnom Penh stampede occurred on 22 November 2010 when 347 people were killed in a human stampede during the Khmer Water Festival celebrations in the Cambodian capital, Phnom Penh.  Yesterday was 30.04.2011 . I applied one scholarship and the pplication deadline was on 30.04.2011. 25.04.2011: On my way back form submitting an application I saw one banner advertising about its promotion which is offering valid until 30.04.2011 when I saw it made me think “There must be something weird happens on 30.04.2011.” Yeah, it was! My daddy was in car accident. He didn’t get injured!  I’m not superstitious 01.05.2011

 

All my daddy car accident problems are solved!🙂 :( One thing that I didn’t understand: Why my parents had to pay everything in this accident. That’s not my dad’s fault. My parents are too kind! 01.05.2011

If you find yourself in a deep hole, stop digging. Find alternative ways to come back up.

Why my cough will not go away and it keep coming back? I have a really bad cough. I don’t smoke or drink. I have had the cough for about 5 months. F… it! 30.04.2011

Tonight I am not feeling well and worried about my dad and car accident’s matter. I hope everything is gonna be fine. 30.04.2011

My dad was in a car accident today! I was so happy that he was fine. But I am worried about him. I could feel something is wrong with the special people to me. I don’t know this is called psychic or not. A few years ago my ex-lover was in a car accident and I felt the accident before it happened! I could see it coming. Today when I gave my dad a car key, I felt like something is not right. 30.04.2011

I just got home from having porridge and overheard one man said he created one program with his 3 other friends, each of them share equally 3000 USD, in total, they got 12,000 USD, you know what they did with that money. They spent on drinking alcohol. and made me think with that money is worth a lifetime of poor people’s salary. I know they can spend on whatever they want. Just sharing! 30.04.2011

Last Saturday, I took a taxi to Siem Reap, you know what was funny? His small car could carry 10 people (9 adults and 1 boy). I didn’t get mad at him, instead I was so happy for him because he earned more money. He is a funny guy. I had a great time. What I am trying to say here is “Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience.” 30.04.2011

Every afternoon, I drink Cocoa or Coffee. Last year from June to December: day time drank cocoa or coffee, nite time drank beer or whiskey. Right now I am fed up with alcohol!🙂 30.04.2011

♥បងនៅរង់ចាំអូនពីព្រោះបេះដូងរបស់បងបានដិតដាមនៅរូបអូនទៅហើយបងសង្ឃឹមថារូបអូនក៏ដូចជាព្រះអាទិត្យដែលលិចទៅហើយនឹងរះឡើងវិញ ♥You leave footprints and a hole in my heart and unable to erase you from my life. I hope you like the sun, which is setting today, it will also rise tomorrow. ★I had the most incredible time with you. I really had. I’m proud of that! 29.04.2011:) 

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but combines with my positive thinking make it enough!” Recently I am in a good mood, For some unknown reasons, I’m feeling fresh and so happy. Sometimes I drive on the way, I Can’t stop smiling. Although I am a very happy man I still have some problems.I’m more of a Dale Carnegie adherent. Happiness doesn’t depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. He is completely right. So I always have positive thinking! 29.04.2011

Recently, I enjoy watching Korean horror movies. It is awesome! Horror is my favourite ganre of film!🙂 29.04.2011
Older people can understand younger people but the young ones can’t understand the old ones because older people have been through youth life and the young ones didn’t . This sentence make me have this theory “you can only experience when you are aging.” i.e: 30 year old man with many years of Observation Experience compare to 20 year old man. The younger ones can’t know more about life than the old ones.  But if the old ones didn’t have observation experience and the young ones with observation, they can know much better about life than the old ones. Every new generation will be smarter. Life is a great teacher, somethings you only learn by experience in life and no book can teach you that. 28.04.2011
I’m more of doing whatever I want with my life, this is my life. But sometimes I have to give up my dreams for the ones I love the most, my parents. My Dreams: I would like to live in as many as different countries as possible. I just can’t leave my parents alone. I have traveled too much. What else would I ask for!🙂 28.04.2011
Today I am so happy to learn “Thailand and Cambodia announce border truce.”🙂 28.04.2011
Can anyone answer me this question: Why do I always keep these 5 pictures for my profile picture banner(Facebook)? I want to ask particularly to those who always click like my status and others can answer as well. Thanks!🙂 Only the ones who truly know me and understanding person can get it right!🙂  28.04.2011
Last nite, I woke up in the middle of the nite and I couldn’t go back to sleep, so I just wrote sth. The more I wrote about my personality, the more I find out more contradictions of my personality. What is wrong with me? Despite all this big controversy that I have with my personality, I still remain to be a Simple man. Overall I am happy with myself.:) 28.04.2011
Sometimes I told my MaMe: Mom, you have two talented sons! my older brother is good at making money, I don’t have that talent. But I do know how to make a happy and meaningful life!🙂 27.04.2011
A few days ago, I searched some information on Youth Leader Magazine. what I found out made me “proudly to be the first person from Cambodia to make it to the headline in this magazine. 27.04.2011
When it comes time to Play , some of us play like childish. This is called Young At Heart.😀 When it comes Time to work, we take it very seriously. This is called responsibility! :)  At PDT, I met a lot of incredible and talented people. I have learned a lot from them. Thank you guys!🙂 I miss those days so much! :D Life is richer because of all the milestones. I always believe that what makes people different is not the starting point, but the turning point.  I went to study in Phnom Penh and participated in SSEAYP are my turning point! :I am very grateful that I have been a part of this awesome program; it gives me a great sense of pride. 27.04.2011

 My ex-god brother said to me “If you are walking down the right path, you will be a good person. But if you don’t, you will be a very worse person.” I just understood what he meant. He saw my great potential to become that person! 27.04.2011
 Tonight, I have hard feelings after watching one old lady who evacuated from war zone gave interview on CTN. She said “I want my two sons to protect our country and if I don’t have where to run I want to end up my life with Thai soldiers.” Her speech move and touch my heart and I feel horrified, devastated, in shock to hear how her life is on the run and her’s intent to sacrifice her life for the country . I almost cry. 26.04.2011



‎”There will come a day when people truly understand one another.”Jiraiya the Pervy Sage luv this line!🙂

It’s not wrong to love a person. It never meant anything to you, anyway!🙂
Everything happens for a reason. In others words, everyone Gets What They Deserve!

I have learned the moral of “The Taming of the Shrew” Be bad. It makes things good. I apply this when I want to teach someone a lesson. Usually I am a very easy-going person, but with difficult people, I will behave like difficult person to them. But some people who don’t truly know me, will view me as a difficult person. But if they do,  they’ll think “I have a real good reason for what I am doing.” Right now I don’t want to apply this moral in my life anymore!🙂 22.04.2011
Don’t let your today’s decision become your tomorrow’s regret!

Before, I didn’t understand what I did, to make some people dislike me. I just understand why: You can’t please everyone
.Their expectations may be based on a narrow, inaccurate view of you
.Your values could be wildly different from theirs a
nd they don’t want people to have the guts to do what they couldn’t do!🙂

“Happiness doesn’t depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude.” Dale Carnegie
“He who will not apply himself to business, eventually discovers that he means to get his bread by cheating, stealing, or begging, or else is wholly void of reason” Ischomachus
“Never stand begging for what you have the power to earn.” Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra  (Spanish writer)
My parents and SSEAYP family are my source of inspiration. :) 21.04.2011
Live your life from your heart. Share from your heart. And your story will touch and heal people’s souls. Melodie Beattie

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but combines with my positive thinking make it enough!🙂’

‎”There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.”-William Shakespeare

Tonite I just cleaned my room, made me miss my ex. I think I can forget her, but she is still part of my life!🙂 Sometimes when I do sth, it Reminds Me Of Some Sweet Memories. They Remind Me Of Those Moments We Spent Together…
From the bottom of my heart to the depths of my soul♥🙂 19.04.2011

About half-year ago, I leaned this sentence “Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them! ” it is like wake me up from a nightmare, makes me enjoy my old life!🙂 19.04.2011

I am a very simple man. All I really want is everything. who knows what it is in the world I am talking about?

 I am an easy-going kind of guy who is relaxed and not easily upset or worried. Don’t make life difficult. Keep it simple. Simply the best. Life is not a contest. It’s an experience. People with easy going personalities are enjoying the experiences in life, not worrying about if they succeed or not. This is what I am talking about!🙂

I am Always Busy Doing Nothing! :P I think I am crazy because I always busy updating this updating that. It’s useless. 18.04.2011

Figure out what you want in life and learn how to ask for it.🙂

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.”

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” Helen Keller

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”

“The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.”

“Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.”

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.”

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

“What I am looking for is not “out there”, it is in me”

I’m not old-fashioned in my way of thinking; but I am not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Beauty only gets attention but personality captures the ♥heart♥ . “The outside beauty lasts no more than a second. The inside lasts more than a lifetime”

Knowing your value, if a man/woman doesn’t see that, he/she doesn’t deserve you.

“Keep your face to the sunshine and you will never see the shadow.” Helen Keller quotes (American Author and Educator who was blind and deaf. 1880-1968). It means when you keep your eyes on the sunshine u don’t see the shadow i.e when you look out for the light in your life or say positives in your life you will not be having a negative feeling and would be happy with the things around .

A family is more than just a mother, father, sister, brother, husband and wife!🙂

When I read Johann Wolfgang von Goethe’s quote about “Knowing is not enough. We must apply.” I am not bragging or anything, his quote is really match up with what I used to say “knowing 1000 good sayings is not the point, the point is keep that in mind and apply in your life!”

I am so happy when I see your name on my notifications!🙂


សេចក្តីស្រលាញ់ជាមាគ៌ានាំមកនូវសេចក្តីសុខនិងសុភមង្គល!

SSEAYP – A life-changing experience! A program that has been changing the youth’s life, vision and future. It develops talented people. I think many SSEAYP participants have a good career and helps some people do their business well because of this program. The big influence and positively affect for my life, For me, it improves myself and my philosophy of life. SSEAYP shaped my interest in patriotism, volunteer, culture, share and contribute to society. Without SSEAYP, I don’t know what my life would be. :) I am very grateful that I have been a part of this awesome program; it gives me a great sense of pride.🙂
Here are 6 L’s in LIFE:
Live courageously
Love unconditionally
Learn perpetually
Leap fearlessly
Lead unselfishly
And “laugh” hysterically!
Learn how to do for others more than you do for yourself. With that said; but, if you didn’t know, or didn’t care about doing something special for yourself once in a while, you then wouldn’t know how to, or what to do for others, either.🙂
We are shaped by both genetic heredity and environment in which we live!🙂

“Your being small doesn’t serve the world…And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same.” -Nelson Mandela. I saw someone’s’light shine, he or she sets a good example for me and I do the same.🙂 who knows, one day maybe someone will see my light shine, and he or she will do the same!🙂
Believe me! Whatever you do, it’ll cost something or you have to pay the price for that. No matter how much you change, you still have to pay the price for the thing you’ve done. The good things I do, it will pay me a very pleasant price:) and the bad things I do, it will pay me a very unpleasant price:( People will get what they deserve.So be careful what you wish for! 13.04.2011
When I am in Phnom Penh, I always have a great time because of my best friends and relatives. They always come to pick me up and bring me around. For that I appreciate and thank you. It is my honor to know you because you brighten my life and fill it with joy. Here is to the ties that bind and friendship. I think I belong to Phnom Penh. It is my world.🙂 12.04.2011
To understand negative thinking person I have to think from the negative thinking person’s perspective. 12.04.2011
 
Life is richer because of all the milestones. I always believe that what makes people different is not the starting point, but the turning point.🙂 12.04.2011

Today is full of activities and so excited to meet a lot best friends and relatives. Eat a lot and so full. Thank you so much, you guys made my day!🙂 11.04.2011

Youth is a once in a lifetime gift. Make it memorable and meaningful. I am talking about memorable fun, memorable achievement and at the same time make a meaningful contribution to the world. 11.04.2011
I have the courage to walk away from unnecessary conflict. Sometimes there is no need to prove you are a tough or brave person. There is always time for that.🙂 11.04.2011
Thank You Lecturer Note for Writing Letter of Recommendation.
Dear Lecturer Mealea,

Today I was so happy to read your letter. Thank you so much for the letter. When I read your first sentence, I thought Oh my God, but when I finished read the whole paragraph. It brings smile to my face and made my day. I was so impressed by your words. It’s very sweet of you to help me in this matter. It means a lot to me. I’d like to say thank you again. I wish you all the best to you and your family. Take care!🙂

Yours truly,

Dara Dy 11.04.2011
Today I was so happy to read one letter. Thank you so much for the letter. It brings smile to my face and made my day. We cannot live alone in this world, we need each other’s help. It’s very kind of you guys to help me in this matter. It means a lot to me. I’d like to say thank you to Vimealea Thon Samnang Hor Visoth Hactor I wish you guys all the best and take care!🙂 11.04.2011
My best friend told me in admire way “Dara, you really know how to enjoy your life, but for me, I don’t how” I told him how to… I admire him for something, he is good at making money. The things I have, he has not but the things he has, I haven’t. heheehheh🙂
knowledge and experience are not necessary than chance – if we don’t have this, everything is not gonna run smoothly.
Spend your life wisely!🙂
Everything is best with conditions. You can do whatever you want, guys, it’s your life, but, it is also about Being Careful, do not Step on other people’s shoes, do not spit on other people’s life and don’t force someone against his or her will. 11.04.2011
The law is this: Always make the other person feel important.
John Dewey “The deepest urge in human nature is “the desire to be important””
and William James said, “The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.”
Zoroaster said: “Doing good to others is not a
duty. It is a joy, for it increases your own health and happiness.”
“Your being small doesn’t serve the world…And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same.” -Nelson Mandela
I tagged the girl of my dreams and she wrote “ I think you have a great passion for life and you just can’t hold it in.. You can’t contain it so you share what you know about life to as many people as possible through your blogs… You are a people person… always trying to connect with those who happen to cross your path.😀 Yeah, she is rite, I do this because I’ve learned this sentence “Do not value the THINGS
you have in your life. But value WHO you have in your life! Life’s short. If you don’t look around once in a while ,you might miss it.”

A passion for sharing great sayings. Dara has always had a passion to help people have a happy life. I’m looking forward to the future with a smile. I want you to be as happy as I am.

27 years ago today, one women gave birth to one wonderful man.To her I say: Thanks. Thanks for raising such a wonderful, caring, sensitive, and strong man.To him I say: Happy Birthday, my best friend!🙂 I’m so glad you were born, because you brighten my life and fill it with joy. May this year be your best ever. Here’s to another year of experience.😀
One of friends changed my life, his name is Chea, if my memory serves me well, it happened in the year 2000. That day we went to one party together, I looked at the menu and said why don’t they bring this food first, and my friend asked “you never go to anyone’s party before” because of one sentence from him, my personality has changed from being a person that unsocial person that always stay at home to social person that like to go to party. 09.04.2011
I live boldly, Live Boldly doesn’t mean drastically transforming your life. It’s about taking a side-step from the life you currently lead to take on a challenge every now and then. My pledge is to challenge myself to do something “crazy” or “extreme” once a year. I don’t want to look back on my life and think, “I wish I did that.”
If a person is really a beautiful, loving, and caring person inside and does their best to take care of themselves, they will be loved by others.
“Don’t Put Off Until Tomorrow What You Can Do Today.”
As we get older, things seem less important. Before, I really enjoyed talking on the phone with girls and drinking alcohol but now I really enjoy reading and writing!🙂 08.04.2011

Writing is important tool to use to enhance my self esteem, I discovered. 07.04.2011
Every mistakes made by one wrong decision. So make the right choice. 07.04.2011
Love me for who I am, not who I was. It’s not always a good idea to delve too deeply into someone’s past. I am not a good man but I have a good heart. who knows what I am talking about? 07.04.2011
It’s better to lose your pride to someone you love than lose your love because of your pride. Be a friend of thousand, be a lover of one, give your smile to everyone but give your heart to only one.
One woman told me “Dara, you know a lot things, because of that, the girls will not love you.” I replied “maybe I know how to pretend be deaf and blind (mean someone trick you and I know how to pretend I don’t know about that.) She means if the girl can’t dominate me, she will not love me. If she wants to dominate me, she is not my type. 06.04.2011
In Qingming festival this year, many of my relatives asked me “When Are You Gonna Get Married?” I replied ” I enjoy single life, single is just me alone and I have fun but when I have a wife= 2 people = Maybe better or worse!”🙂 05.04.2011
I’m so excited to hit the road with my parents and see many relatives! 😀 (Qingming Festival) 03.04.2011
Spend your life wisely!🙂
You should distance yourself from such people who pressure you.
The past defines a man, tradition and heritage.
Every beginning is a new chapter of life.🙂 02.04.2011

I haven’t had a girlfriend for the last few years but I don’t really feel lonely. My friends, travelling, Facebook, books, blog, movies. All these things keep me busy enough. That’s why I really enjoy single life.🙂 02.04.2011

I saw many people’s status were about problems. I really want to share some ideas. But I know some people will not understand what I am saying. All they need are positive thinking. You are not supposed to solve them all, because the simple truth of it, it is not a problem if you think it is a problem it makes you have a problem. 02.04.2011
Because of this topic THE GIRL OF MY DREAMS Breaks my blog’s Record, Wow 142 views on my busiest day, April 1, 2011! Super Excited!🙂
02.04.2011
When someone laugh at you the best thing to do: laugh with them!😀 01.04.2011
The bad days make the good ones better!🙂
 
You are the only one who can stop yourself from making it.
Don’t judge others till you check yourself first.
“If two people on a committee agree on everything, one of them is unnecessary.”
“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”
Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.
You fight low self-esteem, don’t give it the wheel.
Obstacles are what you see when you lose sight of your goal.
Love me when I least deserve it, because that’s when Ireally need it.Swedish Proverb
Where there is no struggle there is no strength. Oprah Winfrey
“The real secret of success is enthusiasm.”
Walter Chrysler

“A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm.”
Charles M. Schwab

One must not bite the hand that feeds you! It means that you shouldn’t disrespect anyone helps you or does something for you, you should not harm them, and you should treat them respectfully in return.
“Be a youth, use yourself for society.”
“Never give up what you wish.” Kong Davy
As we get older, things seem less important. Now, I stay lay low. I’m rather fond of reading and writing. I actually regard them as fun.
 

 

lay low = to not draw attention to oneself, take a break, or just staying home. 21.03.2011

Kind is a gift, a capacity of pleasure in helping.

Be bad. It makes things good. Some people have a real good reason for what they are

doing.
Two people hang out together, the good person and the bad person. If the good person has more influence, the bad person will become the good person, if not, the good person will become the bad person. Some people are bad for your life! Sometimes you don’t know what you are getting yourself into. 21.03.2011
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”
— Aristotle
Find out your weak point and improve on it. For me. My leadership is not good. so I’ve read a lot about it. And also about anger management. Believe me, not everyone can understand and apply the words in their life. They can read but some people can’t apply them in their life. If they don’t have tendency to improve their self. The words I’ve posted is just a piece of words, but to some people, it is very useful words. Not everyone! depending on people’s tendency.
20.03.2011
Travelling has been my Life!😀 (= the most important and enjoyable thing in my life) 18.03.2011
No one can hurt your feeling unless you let them or deserve it. I just realized what this sentence mean. when we haven’t been in the situation. we don’t know what this sentence is about.
16.03.2011
Today, 15.03.2011 I’ve learned this from my friend, chim chamroeun: For the Quantum Physics, the believe is the minds can influence physical matters.
 

Today, 14th March 2011, is the 1th anniversary of my blog. Happy 1th Birthday to this! :D

This is year #2! It’s been 1 year since I once sat down and thought “sharing interesting and useful topics and my life story.” :)

With my blog originally intended for me to just share my thoughts of what I’ve recently read, it’s grown into something much more. Because of my blog I’ve learned a lot things about human behavior. 14.03.2011

 

Because of my blog, I’ve learned something about human behavior:

Have You Ever Wondered Why people act the way they do or you behave as you behave?

Everyone behaves the way that they do because they are acting through a filter of the rocks (values, assumptions, beliefs, and expectations) that they carry around.

To see this interesting topic @
https://dydara.wordpress.com/2010/11/26/self-awareness-is-the-key-to-change-and-lasting-happiness/

When you are happy, you live a day. When you are not, you still live one day. Why don’t we make that day a happy day! :)

There are a lot of problems with living a life designed to fit everyone else’s expectations of you, though. The top three, as I see it, are:

.You can’t please everyone
.Their expectations may be based on a narrow, inaccurate view of you
.Your values could be wildly different from theirs.

Many people find me weird, I’ll tell you what. I have a happy and meaningful life than those who said that.😀 13.03.2011
Many people also treat me with respect. For that I appreciate!😀
Family is the most important people.
Without them, we have nothing.
Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours.
Dale Carnegie
My condolences to Japanese people, I feel horrified, devastated, in shock to watch powerful quake hits Japan. May God bless Japan and every nations on earth. 11 March 2011
 
You know your true friend when you are in most need. A friend is person who stands by you when you are feeling down.
Life is what you make it, so make the best of it. Or make fun of it, depending on your sense of humour!
“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” -William Arthur Ward
Do you have favorite quotes that you depend upon in a crisis, special quotes that motivate you to move forward, quotes that you are teaching your children?
For me: No matter how hard it is, that time will pass!😀If you can imagine it, you can achieve it; if you can dream it, you can become it. William Arthur Ward
“Speak well of others, not of their faults.” The Buddha
I love you very much, probably more than anybody could love another person.
To be angry is to let others’ mistakes punish urself.
Happy International Women’s Day. The day is meant for acknowledging the achievements, contributions and struggles of the women from all over the world. Often we leave our appreciation unspoken! Today we all say Happy Women’s Day!!!😀 08.03.2011
You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.
Life is a great teacher 06.03.2011

There is no limit to what you can accomplish if you don’t care who gets the credit. -Ronald Reagan
Those that live by the sword will die by the sword.
“People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people may accuse you of selfish motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you may win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. People who really want help may attack you if you help them. Help them anyway. Give the world the best you have and you may get hurt. Give the world your best anyway.” –—  Mother Teresa

We steering our own life 26.02.2011
25.02.2011 I am not bragging or anything, some ideas I used to think of, very similar to what D.H Lawrence said about 100 year ago, “But better die than live mechanically a life that is a repetition of repetitions.”

“If you can control one moment of anger, you can escape hundred days of sorrow”
I have the courage to walk away from unnecessary conflict.
I need to be reminded daily to guard my heart because I’m so easily distracted by people, places and things so this message really speaks to me. 23.02.2011
Live daringly, boldly, fearlessly.
“If you don’t put yourself in a position to be noticed, you won’t be.”
Ronnie Nijmeh
Life is full of challenges, being happy shouldn’t be one of them. Ronnie Nijme 21.02.2011
My greatest enthusiasm is travelling.
My second greatest enthusiasm is philosophy.
enthusiasm= a subject or activity that interests you very much. 20.02.2011
Tonite I had so much fun!😀 my first time in my life I won lucky draw 50 Hello prepaid card. When MC announce the lucky number he said 5 0 and then I said 2, it really came 2. Bingo 502! Super Excited!😀 20.02.2011
I love to cleaning my room while listen music(Esp SSEAYP Songs and I also miss someone!)
Listening SSEAYP songs, brought loads of memories to me. Sometimes, I can’t believe I have been part SSEAYP 18.02.2011
I am deeply proud of my blog, https://dydara.wordpress.com/ Just one year 7,494 hits. I said: If the world will come to know me, it will be through this blog.😀 17.02.2011
The former CEO of Chyrsler, Le Lacocca who said “You can have brilliant ideas, but if you can’t get them across, your idea won’t get you anywhere.”
Quotes of the Day!
“The ultimate test of a moral society is the kind of world that it leaves to its children.” Dietrich Bonhoetter
“In normal life we hardly realize how much more we receive than we give, and life cannot be rich without such gratitude. It is so easy to overestimate the importance of our own achievements compared with what we owe to the help of others.”— Dietrich Bonhoeffer (Letters and Papers from Prison)
Beauty + Intelligent = good luck (Congratulation!)
Beauty+ Dump=bad luck (sorry)

Morning is God’s way of saying 1 more time… Go, live life, make a difference, touch one’s heart, encourage 1’s mind inspire 1’s soul & enjoy the day !!!
★♥Happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way, you just go with the flow, baby!😀
14.02.2011
I’ve learned this from my friend Rithisal Kang.
Sweet person is not just saying something sweet to others, but also do sweet things to others. For example you know that today is your girlfriend’s birthday, you arranged surprised party for her, that’s called♥sweet person.
Happy Valentine’s Day. “If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?” 14.02.2011
No matter how much you change, you still have to pay the price for the thing you’ve done.
Never be sad for what is over just be glad that it was once yours.
Forgive, it’s important. Your ability to forgive is gonna determine the quality of
the rest of your life more than anything else.
Driven by his passions and desires.

some people are great at what they do.
This blog is dedicated to my lovely parents. Thank you so much for everything that my parents have done for me. Thanks for being such a wonderful parents for me. I have been taught and energised, and they have touched my heart. I’m proud of that. Thanks to my parents who have done many good things to me and have added value to me. I would like to show my gratitude and appreciate towards my parents, who forebear pain and discomfort in bringing me up to adulthood. I will always be indebted to them. My Mother, My Hero: The most special person in my life! My Parents are the best gifts that ever happened to my life. I’m proud of that. I am most proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to. I love spending time with family!🙂I love my parents with all my♥heart♥ 10.02.2011
‎”You will never truly be free unless you freely forgive. Hate is
like a chain around your neck that leads you to places you don’t wanna go.
It’ll lead you into darkness and desolation. You become a slave
to that hatred, and it’ll only lead to your own destruction.
You must break free.” Faster Movie
Youth is a once in a lifetime gift. Make it memorable… and meaningful. I am the kind of man who like to attach too much importance to people or events. I think I would miss my youth when I get old. 08.02.2011
Today is Chinese New Year. My both side ancestors were from China. Chinese people are good at making money, but I don’t. One of my greatest enthusiasms is philosophy.
There’s no way to make a career out of that.😀 02.02.2011.
Friends are the sunshine of life! Thanks for brightening my world with the warmth of your friendship!😀
Doctor’s prescription 4 u. A cute little smile 4 breakfast. More laughs 4 lunch. Lots of happiness for dinner. Doctor’s fee? An sms when u r free.‎
9 lessons in life:
Learn 2 care, learn 2 smile, learn 2 cry, learn 2 give, learn 2 forgive, learn to share, learn to trust, learn 2 love & learn 2 SMS me DAILY…!!!
What is the diff between pleasure and torture? Pleasure is thinking of u & torture is thinking of u 2 much.
I heard about Peace boat on 30.01.2011
I want to join this awesome program. This is just a dream. Maybe the dream is what it’s all about, one of the important words for me. I was a little boy with a little dream that came true, not so little, by the way. 30.01.2011
Remember, failure and disappointment are a part of life. Did you learn anything from this sentence? What do you think of these words?

Over the years I have heard many young people complaining that they work hard but their hard work goes unappreciated. To be more specific, here are some complaints:
. I did most of the work but my Boss got all the credit
. I work in the evenings and on weekends and all that happens is – my company takes me for granted.
. “They” don’t really care how hard I work. It hurts.
Some people work hard to get big name.
Men can fall in love with the eyes, but the women  fall in love with their ears.
The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be. Marcel Pagnol
Oh! My God! Today I’m so so excited and I just can’t hide it. There is one International Youth magazine wants to conduct an interview with me about my experience with youth exchange program and my life philosophies in general. They will use my answers for an article for that Magazine, Asia edition. It likes, I am living the dream. Yeah!!!!!😀 I went to the doctor and had chest and back XRay, my result came good, Double Joy!!!!!!😀 27.01.2011
Patience isvirtue.
♥★ When you are happy, you live a day. When you are not, you still live one day. Why don’t we make that day a happy day!
I don’t want to tell you what to do with your life. It’s your life!🙂 I just want to share ideas😀 26.01.2011

Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half sorrow. But not share sorrow all the time😀
From my point of view: Filipino are the best in term of expressing their ideas in Asia.
Japanese are the most modest people in the world.
American people are the best in term of knowing how to party in the world!
Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have. Dale Carnegie

Sometimes we don’t get somethings we want it doesn’t mean bad. 25.01.2011
You should never make a commitment unless you are going to keep it up.
Secret admirers make us believe things about ourselves that we always hoped were true.

A relationship is like a rose, How long it lasts, no one knows; Love can erase an awful past, Love can be yours, you’ll see at last; To feel that love, it makes you sigh, To have it leave, you’d rather die; You hope you’ve found that special rose, ‘Cause you love and care for the one you chose.
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”
— Aristotle
If you keep doing the same thing, you’ll keep getting the same result!😀

Treat everyone with politeness even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice but because you are nice! If you do the same as them, you’re no different from them. One good sentence cannot apply to all situations, but most of them do.
Did everything together buried in the same.

You can complement in public but criticism should be in private.

“But better die than live mechanically a life that is a repetition of repetitions.”
D.H Lawrence

You should not forget what you should remember, you should not remember what you should forget.

“If you want to be loved, be lovable.” Ovid

I value friendship very much: Friends are an essential ingredient for happiness, and that we need their permanent company -when we eat, walk, or feel the need for conversation.

Philosophy has always been regarded as a means of discovering the secret of happiness. What really is that has the amazing power to make us happy? That gives us joy, pleasure, enormous satisfaction?
The question is how we can relate it on our daily life?

I am a very simple man. All I really want is everything. hehehee just kidding😀 I just wanna live my life to the fullest. Nothing more, nothing less. 22.01.2011

It’s over now. We are gonna pretend that it never happened.
“Truth allows you to live with integrity. Everything you do and say shows the world who you really are. Let it be the truth.”
Oprah Winfrey
Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching. ~ Dennis Janson
Every lie has a consequence…..you cannot escape that. ~  Gary King
The stronger the feelings, the more difficult the resolution.
What I am saying or posting here it is not about Seeking the admiration or respect of others by trying to act like experts. Naz, it’s not in my character to seek that things. I just want to share😀 20.01.2011

I never see anybody have a perfect life. Don’t make life difficult. Keep it simple.😀 20.01.2011

” The tongue like a sharp knife…kills without drawing blood.”
Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as a sword, but wisely spoken words can heal. I used to tease my good friend cried, I am regret about it, I’m sorry my good friend! I hope you forgive me. It was nearly 6 years ago, I still remember that day. I am such an idiot. If it wasn’t for that day, I would still enjoy teasing people  Sothea Pen
. 19.01.2011

I used to say “I Can’t Believe Myself that I am an optimist who has too much optimism in almost anything when it comes to grief of relationship breakup, I cannot overcome it. Unbelievable! WTF! Love is so funny. Isn’t it?” but now I can overcome it, super excited!😀 Trying my best to be me again! I’ve changed my lifestyle!🙂 19.01.2011

I love you more than any word can say…

I love you more than every action I take…

I’ll be right here loving you till the end!

*The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.” Buddha Quote.

“I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough..”

I finally understood what true love meant…love meant that you care for another person’s happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.

“Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it”

I don’t know anything but I do know one thing that I Know how enjoy almost every moment of my life!😀 Dy Dara

In the end, it’s not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away.

“The dumb one does not learn from his mistakes. The intelligent one learns from his mistakes. The wise learns from other people’s mistakes.”

“a smart person knows what to say, but a wise person knows whether to say it or not”

I’m not bragging or anything! The never boring life of me: go to different places, meet different people, see different things, I have multifarious interests and I am the kind of man who has a thousand kind of men in one body!🙂

Mahatma Gandhi

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

If we practice and eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole world will be blind and toothless.

Confucius

To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it.

The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people. Theodore Roosevelt

Mother Teresa:

“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.”

–“We cannot all do great things, but we can do small things with great love.”What I do you cannot do; but what you do, I cannot do. The needs are great, and none of us, including me, ever do great things. But we can all do small things, with great love, and together we can do something wonderful.”

Sometimes, I need to teach someone a lesson for those who spit on my life!

 

“Men go abroad to wonder at the heights of mountains, at the huge waves of the sea, at the long courses of the rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motions of the stars, and they pass by themselves without wondering.(don’t wonder who they really are)” — Saint Augustine

“There is only one success – to spend your life in your own way.”
– Christopher Morley

 

I think this sentence need some conditions to make it perfect:  but, it is also about Being Careful, do not Step on other people’s shoes and do not spit on other people’s life and don’t force a person against their will.

Sometimes, I wonder why some people are so good to me, I don’t have anything for them and I don’t understand what I did, to make some people dislike me. I can’t serve everyone’s heart.

“Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.” –Mark Victor Hansen

Life is an ice cream, enjoy it before it melts! If you love life and are looking for some inspirational cute quotes about life, then the following page has an assorted bouquet of cute quotes about life.

You’ve overcome the greatest challenge in life. You know all my flaws, differences, and mistakes, yet still you love everything about me. I so love you very much!

William James: Quote: Attitude
The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.

“It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult undertaking which, more than anything else, will determine its successful outcome.”

William James

“Good for the body is the work of the body, good for the soul the work of the soul, and good for either the work of the other.”
-Henry David Thoreau

“Minds are like parachutes; they work best when open.” Thomas Dewar

An open mind is a mind that is non-judging, open to new thoughts, ways of doing things. That does not see obstacles but opportunities.

An open parachute is obviously “in action” or “used” and function, while a parachute is closed when not in use.

The quote “Minds are like parachutes; they work best when open.” means that there can be a functional and disfunctional mind (compared to a closed and open parachute). Tommy Dewar, who is the author of this quote, states that only an open mind is a mind that is really functioning.

Don’t make life difficult. Keep it simple.

I don’t believe in sin for next life, but I do believe the good things I do, they will pay me a very pleasant price:) and the bad things I do, they will pay me a very unpleasant price:( 01.01.2011

A man who likes to talk behind somebody’s back is a coward.

រូបមិនសូវល្អ ចំណេះដឹងក៏ទាប រស់លើទំនាប ក្បែរមាត់ទន្លេ…
ចំណង់ចំណូលចិត្តៈ ពេលទំនេរអង្គុយសំកុក ពេលអផ្សុកចេញទៅក្រៅ ពេលមួម៉ៅស្តាប់ចម្រៀង ពេលមេឃភ្លៀងញ៉ាំបាយកក ពេលទឹកស្រកដើររកត្រី..
ចំណាប់អារម្មណ៍ៈ ចង់ជួយចែករំលែកអ្វីដែលអាចអភិវឌ្ឍសង្គមជាតិ ឲមានការរីកចម្រើន និងព្យាយាមធ្វើខ្លួនឲមានប្រយោជន៍សម្រាប់សង្គមជាតិខ្មែរ ។

The evil exist in every man. Sometimes you don’t know what you are getting yourself into.

“the best revenge is success.”

អស់កម្លាំងចិត្ដ នាំអោយអស់សង្ឃឹម នាំអោយអស់ភាពតស៊ូ!!!

You only live once, but if you work it right, once is enough. There’s a lot to live for in this life.🙂

I think I was born in the wrong body because the way I think and behave is like Western people. But it doesn’t mean I don’t proud of my parents. I am most proud of my♥parents and I’m so proud to be Cambodian★ 22.12.2010

 

My favorite Khmer saying

រឹង សូមអោយ រឹងប៉ឹង មិនមែន រឹងរូស

បើ ទន់ សូមអោយ ទន់ភ្លន់ មិនមែន ទន់ជ្រាយ។ 21.12.2010

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” Mahatma Gandhi

“A human being is happiest and most successful when dedicated to a cause outside his own individual (Do for others more than you do for yourself.)

, selfish satisfaction.” Benjamin Spock

I just realized that why I miss someone or something so much because I attach too much importance to that person or that things. 19.12.2010

“At his best, man is the noblest of all animals; separated from law and justice he is the worst” Aristotle

Dy Dara I saw many people’s comment they want happy all times. Life would be more meaningful, If you understand about this ideas: I think true meaningful life consists of every aspect of life, good or bad. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. It is not all about happy, but also about learn, experience and explore life.”🙂 10.12.2010

Life can be difficult sometimes. It gets bumpy, what with family and kids and things not going exactly like you planned. But that’s what makes it interesting. In life, the first act, always exciting. The second act, that’s where the depth comes in.

In the business world, all you need to do is to set a goal and a plan to react that goal.

Dy Dara Facebook has become a religion!🙂 I changed my facebook profile page 08.12.2010

 

Do you know what love is?
It’s a kind of feeling. Lovers would share the same thought, and miss
each other. Share sorrow and Happiness, and Keep the others in
mind. That’s love.

Ratana Meng kiss… You think that it simple but when you win a kiss, it touches the blood of vein to the heart… Kiss become as hot as lava even in the middle of the rain or snow… Kiss would be a blueprint… Knocking a mind like spilling milkglass…

“Whether you think you can, or think you can’t. You’re right.”~ Henry Ford

“I Wish for you a life of wealth, health, and happiness; a life in which you give to yourself the gift of patience; the virtue of reason, the value of knowledge, and the influence of faith in your own ability to dream about and achieve worthy rewards.” Jim Rohn

“Being unwanted, unloved, uncared and forgotten by everybody, is a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.”


“A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.”

“Let us rise up and be thankful for.. if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die..so let us all be thankful.”

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”

“On life’s journey faith is nourishment, virtuous deeds are a shelter, wisdom is the light by day and right mindfulness is the protection by night. If a man lives a pure life, nothing can destroy him.”

“The mind is everything. What you think you become.”

In my life, many people have treated me very well and have touched my heart. Thanks for being such a wonderful inspiration to me. Thank you so much for everything that you have done for me. It is my honor to know you guys. With lots of ♥love and hopes to a long lasting friendship. You are in my mind and in my heart. I’m Glad to have you! Just wanted to remind you how special you are!🙂 Remember, those whose lives you have touched and whose have touched yours are always a part of you.🙂 You are one of the best gifts that ever happened to my life. I’m proud of that. I would like to show my gratitude and appreciate toward everyone who has touched my heart. 30.11.2010

Love is like heaven but hurts like hell.


Judge me all you want, but keep the verdict to yourself.


Do not envy the one you admire most, instead, try to make yourself the one that can be envied.

I believe in angels. The kind that heaven sends… I’m surrounded by angel, but I call them my best friends.

Ask how someone feel, and don’t assume you know how someone feel on any given day. Don’t make assumptions based on outward appearances. he or she may look fine on the outside, while inside he or she is suffering. No one is superman or superwoman.

Treat everyone with politeness even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice but because you are nice. If we do the same thing as rude people we are not different from them.

knowing 1000 good sayings is not the point, the point is keep that in mind and apply in your life! Dy Dara 26.11.2010

Great minds think alike.

Dara knows how to enjoy almost every moment of his life!🙂 24.11.2010

People really love their own countries. To most people 2010 Haiti earthquake, 230,000 people had died, that was normal shock for non-Haitian Citizens. that was a big shock for me as well. 22 november 2010 At Least 378 Die in Stampede in Cambodia, that is very very shock for me . I feel horrified, devastated, in shock to see my many fellow countrymen died that way.  I feel really sad for their families. Now I know how you feel when disaster happened to your nation. RIP 23 November 2010

I’m not sure what to say, but I want you to know I care.
I asked how are you? to some people, they did not even bother to reply me. That makes me don’t want to value our friendship anymore. But I still do.
Someone who I know personally when they didn’t reply, make me disappointed.
Opps, I am a bit outspoken. Sorry if I’m being too direct. 18.11.2010

“Nobody is perfect. You’re not human if you’ve never had any mistake”

“The outside beauty lasts no more than a second. The inside lasts more than a lifetime” 

“My writing is the way to cherish my memory.” Dy Dara 18.11.2010

It’s easy to stand with the crowd. It takes courage to stand alone.

We tend to spend more times thinking about how others would think of us, but loose focus on how we should think for ourselves. It is about time to stand up now and focus on our own needs for improvement, advancement, and success.” Khmer Author Chanbo Keo


Oh my god tonight I just had dog meat, I didn’t know when i was having it. my friend lied to me. 17.11.2010 (started to use the words “My online diary.”)

If someone didn’t ask me to comment about something and I have nothing good to say I better not say it!

Tonight I just finished Watch the grand opening ceremony of the 16th Asian Games, Guangzhou, China. It was so awesome. make me want to visit China! I♥Love China!🙂

I saw my Cambodia Team! I wish I could attend a big sports events of the world like World Cup, Olympic Games or Asian Games! I hope my dream come true one day!🙂 12 November 2010

Here’s a secret to living a happy life: keep the good parts of your youthful personality and leave the bad parts behind.

Individuality is not a trait shared by everyone. I respect individuality of everyone. But some people don’t understand mine.

The difference makes the world beautiful. It means that everyone is unique in his/her own way and don’t look down on someone who is different from you.

“Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” ~ Confucius

 

I am a carefree person, I don’t care what others think about me because I can’t control what others think of me but whatever I do, I just don’t step on other people shoes and do not spit on other people life. I can do whatever I want with my life. This is my life. J

You can’t get too much done in life if you only working on the days when you feel good. You can’t broaden your knowledge if you only read what you like.

I like having my photo taken (60 photos=almost 60 smiles) Remember to always carry a smile in your heart.

I was a broken heart man who needs mending. Recently I have felt pretty awesome after reading many articles, writing several topics and hanging out with my friends.These things made me started to enjoy my old life. I just realized that there are so many wonderful things for me to enjoy. Life is filled with Pretty Things, enjoy them! Time heals all pain.🙂 09 November 2010

IGNORANCE IS A BLISS

Dara: I enjoy single life and I like to fly like a bird.

My friend(Kha):  birds are also fly in pairs. 03.11.2010

 

I have many good sayings that I keep in my mind this is one of them. Good things happen to A Good person. So you guys should start do something good for your people around you. To do good deed for people around me is my pleasure!🙂

The most powerful weapon is the human soul on fire.

When one door of happiness closes,another opens but often we look
so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been    opened for us.

It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it.

Care more about our own character, not our reputation, because our character is our true identity, and our reputation is simply just what others think of us.

 

Real learners are very open mind and very humble to learn from others and think that everyone can be their teachers. Everywhere is school!

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today for a good opportunity sometimes never comes twice too soon.

Age is just a number. Only our wisdom and maturity count.

MAY YOU & YOUR LOVED ONES ALWAYS BE BLESSED WITH LIGHT, LOVE, JOY, PEACE, GOOD HEALTH & ABUNDANCE🙂

Love for All and Sharing is the first step to solving all the problems of humanity.

The Day I Will Stop LovingYou, Is The Day I Close My Eyes Forever…!

If you’re doing something you love, you’re more likely to put your all into it, and that generally equates to making money. – Warren Buffett

Optimism can take you anywhere.

In the case you want to get a push to carry out your ambitions, Make sure that everyone close by you know about your current personal development goals so that there’s plenty of public pressure on you on a consistent basis. Reporting to them would definitely make you think a lot about letting go of your goal setting.

Everywhere is school!🙂

Don’t wait until it’s too late to tell someone how much you love, how much you care. Because when they’re gone, no matter how loud you shout and cry, they won’t hear you anymore. 24hrs make a lovely day, 7 days make a lovely week, 52 weeks make a lovely year & knowing a person like me will make ur life lovely. Have a lovely day n life. Luv meanz to see someone with closed eyez, to miss some1.

Event creates hero.

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.Pity the person with one true friend. Envy him or her. Pity the person with just a thousand acquaintances.They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them,
but then an entire life to forget them.
Send this phrase to the people you’ll never forget.
If you don’t send it to anyone, it means you’re in a
hurry and that you’ve forgotten your friends.
Take the time to live!Do not value the THINGS
you have in your life. But value WHO you have in your life!
Life’s short. If you don’t look around once in a while ,you might miss it. There is no going back.

“Expect Nothing And You Won’t Be Disappointed”

It’s not a problem when my friends ask me 2 do something but it’s a big problem when I know that I can’t do that thing for them! From Rina

What my parents want is what I want and who they want me to be I can be that person for them.
What my friends want is what I want and who my gf want me to be I can be that person for her.
Do for others more than you do for yourself. Good things happen to a good person.🙂 15.10.2010

Sadness and Happiness always happen in people’s life.

Curiosity is a gift, a capacity of pleasure in knowing, which if you destroy, you make yourself cold and dull. But Don’t curious about other people’s affairs!🙂 Lesson Learned🙂

No need to thank me help what we can with others in need…the world is ONE big family!🙂

Love urself ,Flirt with ur understanding,Romance
with dreams,Get engaged with simplicity,Marry genuineness,Divorce the ego…That’s Good Life!🙂

“From children and drunks will you hear the truth.” (Danish proverb)

Make your day, every day, as great as it could be, so it will become a great memory of tomorrow which you would rediscover and would smile again with great pride and honor.

People are like blind or blank page so we need good books and good teachers to guide our way. I am a believer in life-long learning. Love of learning is the guide of life.🙂

 

 

Today I just said something to my friend that I will stop hang out and drink with him for a while. I was sad when I said that to my friend who is like me. I don’t want to hurt someone’s feeling. But I will get rid of the friends that bad for my life. I am not kind of pointing finger person who like to blame others. But we have to weigh the pros and cons of something. I think I am a easy going person I need easy going friends too. some friends are not easy to be their friends.  Last night I can’t fall asleep because of think about I should stop hang out with him and tell him some reasons so next time we meet we can be friend. And weigh the pros and cons.

I will get rid of the friends that are bad for my life. 05/10/2010
The more mercy you have, the less hatred you have.

 

When life knocks you down, you could choose whether or not to get back up.
Too much of something is not good.

“I don’t like to judge people. What they are doing is their business. But if they need my help if I can I will. And If they spit on my life, it gonna be my business I have to take care of. When I see someone is good at the first place, I don’t say he or she is a good person, someone can pretend to be a good person, and when I see someone is rude or aggressive, I don’t say he or she is a bad person, because he or she may be  just had a bad day.

You see only with the eyes, you are easy to fool. When it comes to judge people I have to spend a long time to get to know them well before judge that people, so it is not gonna be no misjudge.”

30/09/2010 Dy Dara

“be the man of principle, fight for what u believe, keep ur word, live with integrity, be brave, believe in something bigger than urself, be humble and self-confident, be a good friend, appreciate ur friends and family, take responsibility on ur actions and serve ur country well” Major Douglas Alexander Zembiec

“I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.”
– Martha Washington

“There is only one success – to spend your life in your own way.”
– Christopher Morley

“I totally agree with that, But, it is also about Be Careful, do not Step on other people shoes and do not spit on other people life” Dy Dara

“Happiness is like a perfume! U cannot spread on others without getting a few drops on urself. So always be happy to make everyone around u happy =(^_^)=”


Are u all in ur bed now? Turn on the radio, and go to Radio Bed FM. It’s me DJ Pillow, and I gonna play u a song entitled “Goodnight”, from the album “Sleep tight”, by a pop singer named “Sweet Dream”! =^_^= From Roth Picheata

Some guys say exams are like their girl friends
– Too many questions
– Difficult to understand
– More explanation is needed
– Result is always failed ^_^, hahaha do u think like them?

When you smile, the whole world smiles with you but when you frown, you frown alone.

We are all warriors in the battle of life, but some people are leaders and some people are followers.

When you’ve done something wrong you can forgive yourself, why you can’t forgive others?

Out of the closets and into the museums, libraries, architectural monuments, concert halls, bookstores, recording studios and film studios of the world. Everything belongs to the inspired and dedicated thief… Words, colors, light, sounds, stone, wood, bronze belong to the living artist. They belong to anyone who can use them. Loot the Louver! A bas l Originality, the sterile and assertive ego that imprisons us as it creates. Vive le sol — pure, shameless, total. We are not responsible. Steal anything in sight.

William S. Burroughs

United we stand; divided we fall.

The right moment to take care of our life is NOW. Honor it, strengthening it, empower it, and Respect it. Harmony will shower upon us once we start taking those actions NOW.

A smile from the bottom of your heart is an act of courage and strength. Do it often. You will find yourself stronger and stronger every day.

Sometimes it’s true dat de world’s really unfair and cruel with us, but we have to live with it becos there’s no another world to live in!!!

How do leaders earn respect?
by making sound decisions, by admitting their mistakes and by putting what’s the best for their followers and the organization ahead of their personal agendas.

When I got pain, my positive thinking is a painkiller medicine. No matter how hard it is that time will pass. In others words, It is not the end of the world.

Apologizing does not always means that we are wrong and the other person is right. It just means

With My Cambodia Prime Minister, Graduated with honors

With My Cambodia Prime Minister, Graduated with honors

that we value our relationship more than our arrogance.

Everybody is capable of doing something great in their life… they either don’t believe in themselves or think it’s impossible to make a difference. The greatest people of all time started out alone, trying to make a difference… and they did. You Can too

Whatever you do, it’ll cost something or you have to pay the price for that. So be careful what you wish for!

The light always comes after dark.

put your head down and keep working, and you’ll get what’s coming to you. You just push through.

In true love, there is no evil.

“true benevolence is the love of mankind”

“To succeed in the world it is not enough to be stupid, you must also be well-mannered.”

Voltaire

The person who reads too much and uses his brain too little will fall into lazy habits of thinking.
—Albert Einstein

Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.—Confucius

When anger rises think of the consequences.

The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions. -Confucius

The law of the influence to your life:
Character- who you are
Relationships- who you know
Knowledge- what you know
Intuition- what you feel
Experience- where you have been
Past success- what you’ve done
Ability- what you can do.

Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. — Oscar Wilde

knowledge and experience are not necessary than chance – if we don’t have this, everything is not gonna run smoothly.

Be True to Yourself
Never compromise (lower standards) your values and beliefs,
even it if means risking ridicule and rejection. Be true to yourself. Live your own life.

And don’t allow others to decide what is best for you. If you do, you will be unhappy, because, you’re untrue to yourself.

Life is like a mountain. Reaching its peak is my aim. However trails are difficult to go through. But what’s important are –  The lessons I’ve learned, Challenges I’ve experienced, and the people I’m with in my journey.

Choices In Life
Any change, any loss, dos not make us victims.
Others can shake you, surprise you or disappoint you.
But they can’t prevent you from moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. On every turn of life, you will always have a choice. And that choice can be your power.

Go Out And Create

How does one find good in world? With so much pain, With so many hungry children, With so much suffering?

The answer is not to try find ‘good’ but to create it, by helping one person at a time.

Go out and create something good today!!

How The Time Flies

Everyone says, “How the time flies.”
The days go by and they are years, and the years finally become our whole life.

Each daily portion can be wasted, or it can be a pleasure, before it is gone forever.
If a review of the day concludes that we were too stressed,
too busy, didn’t accomplish anything, didn’t have any fun,
then it has been another lost piece of precious life.

Never look at what you have lost.
Always look at what is left with you.

Something Better For You
When something happens to you – Good or Bad; Consider what it means.
There’s a purpose to life’s events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

When you feel down because you didn’t get what you want, just sit tight and be happy.

Life Is An Echo
What you send out – comes back.
What you sow – you reap.
What you give – you get.
What you see in others – exists in you.

Remember, Life is an Echo.
It always gets back to you.

All Life Is A Miracle
People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle.
But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth.

Everyday we are engaged in a miracle which we don’t even recognize;
a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black curious eyes of a child; our own two eyes.

Each day is a different one, each day brings a miracle of its own. It’s just a matter of paying attention to this miracle

All Life Is A Miracle.

Living Without Hope

Man can live about forty days without food,
About three days without water,
About eight minutes without air,

But only one second without hope.

Life is like a morning fresh air which you can feel with deep fresh breath…Life is a blooming flower throwing shades of Love….A Sunrise with ray of hope….and like a bird flying towards their Dreams…..Life is Just to feel……..I feel it…and it gives me Spirit to live..to Dream..and to achieve all what I Love :)

Live One Day At A Time
Our lives are made up of a million moments, spent in a million different ways.
Some are spent searching for love, peace and harmony.
Others are spent surviving day to day.

But there is no greater moment that when we find that life,
with all its joys and sorrows, is meant to be lived one day at a time.

Life is like a rainbow, Good from a distance as you enjoy;
But try to capture it, And you have nothing to capture.

Don’t try to capture life, Feel every moment you live.

If You Wish

If you wish to be respected, then be ever respectful.
If you wish to be understood, then sincerely understand others.
If you wish to be appreciated, then be ever grateful.
If you wish to be loved, then give love in each moment.

If you wish to be wealthy, then act to create real value.
If you wish to learn, then take time to teach.
If you wish to climb higher, then life others up.
If you wish to be wise, then share what you know.

Whatever you wish, life will surely give it.
What you must do, though, is to truly live it.
There is so much to live for and so much to see.
You will have whatever you are willing to be.

” In life just do’t trust people who change their feeling with time… Instead trust those people whose feeling remain the same, even when the time changes….”
” Time is like a river, you can’t touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again…” Enjoy every moment of life…..success is not defined by obtaining everything you want but by enjoying and appreciating everything you have.
Learn to enjoy what you have…..
” Life is double-sided; there is a wrong side and a right side, a sad side and a happy side, a black side and bright side. So, if thins seem dark to you, just change your thoughts about. Life will look quite different if you turn it best side out…….”

If everyone knows the meaning of the words appreciate and respect, they will behave differently toward people. From my point of view when they aware of these words they will have positive behavior for people.

Sweet person is not just saying something sweet to others, but also do sweet things to others. For example you know that today is your girlfriend’s birthday, you arranged surprised party for her, that’s called sweet person.

A degree is just the piece of paper it is not what makes a man; it is man who makes himself!

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

In this page here you will see many quotations. You can say I am crazy about them or you can say it is boring here to see too many quotes and Sayings. But I’ll tell you what; I think I can have a happy life because of these words.

In my life I have learned a lot wise words. These words are really useful for my life. If you can apply them in your life, it will be very useful for you too.

Quotations help us remember the simple yet profound truths that give life perspective and meaning. When it comes to life’s most important lessons, we can all use gentle reminders.

I’ve decided to create a new page for “Collection of good saying 2” because it is hard to update on the old post.
To see collection of good sayings 1 go to

Almost everything that happened to me I like to think of something to make me happy. For example; Learn to view everything as aworthwhile experience, I enjoy every aspect of life. The special phrases I use is “When you are happy, you live a day. When you are not, you still live one day. Why don’t we make that day a happyday!” Or When I encounter difficulties in my life I’ll always think of this special phrase “no matter how hard it is that time will pass, it is not every day I see or feel it, it is not a problem if you think it is aproblem it makes you have a problem. In others words, It is not the end of the world. That helps.You have no idea what I am capable of! You know who you’re dealing with. About to let you know heheeheehee🙂 just kidding. I just act tough and that’s how I got through everything🙂 I Can’t Believe Myself that I am an optimist who has too much optimism in almost anything when it comes to grief of relationship breakup, I cannot overcome it. Unbelievable! WTF! Love is so funny. Isn’t it?

No one can hurt my feeling unless I let them or deserve it.

Everyone cannot succeed in everything they do, but just keep trying. Failing does not mean the end of everything. You should keep yourself-belief, find out your weak point and improve it. Failing to achieve is not a failure, but losing your hope and motivation is a true failure. What I am saying here is not teaching you. I am not qualified to teach anyone, but I just want to share some ideas with you guys, audiences.

If you have any good sayings, please leave a comment, thank you !
Thanks for being there with me!!!🙂

16 Comments »

  1. Great words !!! It must be useful for me,, thanks Bro…

    Comment by Thida — September 3, 2010 @ 3:26 pm | Reply

  2. you are welcome, my pleasure!🙂

    Comment by dydara — September 3, 2010 @ 3:38 pm | Reply

  3. Fantastic Dara! Great Job! All Words and Sentenses was so inspired!
    Keep Updated and be the best and who you are.. continuing on your journey and having plenty lot of fun and rewards. I can’t wait to see you more sucessful everyday and even more happier with friend, family and others in life near the future.. All the Best to you Dara .. Cheers..🙂

    Comment by chanmala — September 12, 2010 @ 6:55 pm | Reply

    • You seem to be an understanding person and sweet person, Mala, thks🙂 it is nice to know ya! good luck, take care!🙂

      Comment by dydara — September 12, 2010 @ 10:43 pm | Reply

  4. Love this every much… Thx for sharing…🙂

    Comment by Emilio Khmer — September 30, 2010 @ 9:42 am | Reply

    • you are welcome, my pleasure!🙂 when I see some people love this page, that’s motivating me to update more of good saying.🙂

      Comment by dydara — September 30, 2010 @ 1:05 pm | Reply

  5. good words …thanks

    Comment by sayrithy — October 10, 2010 @ 2:56 pm | Reply

    • No need to thank me help what we can with others in need…the world is ONE big family!

      Comment by dydara — October 10, 2010 @ 10:12 pm | Reply

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    Comment by Virginia makore — October 24, 2010 @ 8:33 pm | Reply

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