About Me

 

I'm so proud to be Cambodian!!! “Patriotism is your conviction that this country is superior to all other countries because you were born in it.” George Bernard Shaw

Welcome to My Blog!

Thank you so much for checking out my blog 🙂

A place where I talk about my life and share interesting and useful topics. 🙂

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If the world will come to know me, it will be through this blog.

This blog is dedicated to my lovely parents. Thank you so much for everything that my parents have done for me. Thanks for being such a wonderful parents for me. I have been taught and energised, and they have touched my heart. I’m proud of that. Thanks to my parents who have done many good things to me and have added value to me. I would like to show my gratitude and appreciate towards my parents, who forebear pain and discomfort in bringing me up to adulthood. I will always be indebted to them. My Mother, My Hero: The most special person in my life! My Parents are the best gifts that ever happened to my life. I’m proud of that. I am most proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to. I love spending time with family!  I love my parents with all my♥heart♥

This blog is also dedicated to all those who wish to empower their lives through the use of self-improvement messages. Please feel free to explore. I hope you will find something that inspires you.

Just want to share ideas with Friends!

My Email: darastarnet@yahoo.com

Great minds talk about ideas; small minds talk about people, once said Eleanor Roosevelt

If you have an apple and I have an apple and we exchange these apples then you and I will still each have one apple. But if you have an idea as well, and we exchange these ideas, then each of us will have two ideas.”

Our real mission is to find our own purpose as we live. We never know what it is. It’s just for us to search. To make our existence meaningful..
You only live once, but if you work it right, once is enough. I want to run a life worth living.

I’ve written on my blog or Facebook, it is not about impressing anyone. But It is about sharing with someone who likes reading, remembering something as well. I want to improve my English. I am not bragging or anything.  Helping people from all walks of life, reshape their personal vision of what’s possible. I hope my good messages of possibility, opportunity, and action can help create startling and powerful change in thousands of individuals worldwide, especially Cambodian people!  No need to thank me help what we can with others in need…the world is ONE big family! 🙂

រូបមិនសូវល្អ ចំណេះដឹងក៏ទាប រស់លើទំនាប ក្បែរមាត់ទន្លេ…
ចំណង់ចំណូលចិត្តៈ ពេលទំនេរអង្គុយសំកុក ពេលអផ្សុកចេញទៅក្រៅ ពេលមួម៉ៅស្តាប់ចម្រៀង ពេលមេឃភ្លៀងញ៉ាំបាយកក ពេលទឹកស្រកដើររកត្រី..
ចំណាប់អារម្មណ៍ៈ ចង់ជួយចែករំលែកអ្វីដែលអាចអភិវឌ្ ឍសង្គមជាតិ ឲមានការរីកចម្រើន និងព្យាយាមធ្វើខ្លួនឲមានប្រយោជន ៍សម្រាប់សង្គមជាតិខ្មែរ ។

https://dydara.wordpress.com/2010/09/10/my-birthday-party-2010/

Don’t be scared of having your ideas stolen by others when you share it with them. Having people hear your ideas will spark criticism and contribution within them, only strengthening your own thoughts and counter-argumentation.

I am so proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to.

មាតាបិតាជាព្រះអាទិទេព(God)របស់កូនប្រុសស្រី កូនគប្បីធ្វើសេចក្តីគោរពកោតក្រែងចំពោះលោកទាំងពី រ និងចិញ្ចឹមបីបាច់ថែរក្សាលោកឲ្យបានសេចក្តីសុខ ទាន់ពេលលោកមានជីវិតរស់នៅ ដើម្បីកុំឲ្យមានវិប្បដិសារីទៅថ្ងៃក្រោយ។ កូនដែលប្រកបដោយកតញ្ញុតាធម៌ រមែងបាននូវសិរីមង្គលគ្រប់ប្រការ និងគ្រប់ទីកន្លែង

A blog is a contraction of the term “web log“, a type of web site,usually maintained by an individual with regular entries of commentary, descriptions of events, or other material such as graphics or video. Entries are commonly displayed in reverse-chronological order. “Blog” can also be used as a verb, meaning to maintain or add content to a blog.

 

There are some good stories in this blog. I hope you can take some ideas from this story and apply to your life. 🙂

What I’ve been writing here, I am not bragging or anything.

Everything I said about myself here is not about showing off, it is about sharing good ideas! 😀

A passion for sharing great sayings. Dara has always had a passion to help people have a happy life. I’m looking forward to the future with a smile. I want you to be as happy as I am.

 

I really don’t know how to express myself. Well, You have no idea what I am capable of! You know who you’re dealing with. About to let you know. Hehehehe 🙂 just kidding. I just act tough and that’s how I got through everything 🙂

I thought I needed to know what it was like out there, in a real world. So I went out there and I lived it.

I don’t know anything but I do know one thing that I Know how enjoy almost every moment of my life! 😀

I think I was born in the wrong body because the way I think and behave is like
Western people. But it doesn’t mean I don’t proud of my parents. I am most proud of my♥parents and I’m so proud to be Cambodian★

Easy-going, Optimism, Persistent and money can take you anywhere. 🙂

If you bring out the very worst in me, you will see one of the craziest men you’ve ever met. This time I’m serious. The most powerful weapon is the human soul on fire. That is why I always keep these good saying in my mind “If you can control one moment of anger, you can escape hundred days of sorrow.” and ” When anger rises think of the consequences.” I am talkative if you like my talk. I think I am a man who respects for almost everyone. Some people don’t respect me and I don’t respect them back I don’t care who they are. Opps, I am a bit outspoken. I apologize for any offence caused by my words.

Everybody is capable of doing something great in their life… they either don’t believe in themselves or think it’s impossible to make a difference. The greatest people of all time started out alone, trying to make a difference… and they did. You Can too…

With My Cambodia Prime Minister H.E. Samdech Hun Sen. Graduated with honors

 

A degree is just the piece of paper it is not what makes a man; it is man who makes himself! It doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate someone who gets high education. What I am trying to say here is if you can’t afford or don’t have time to pursue your study, you can learn by yourself.

Have You Ever Wondered Why people act the way they do or you behave as you behave?

Everyone behaves the way that they do because they are acting through a filter of the rocks (values, assumptions, beliefs, and expectations) that they carry around. For me, This is what I believe:

“I can do whatever I want with my life. This is my life.  But whatever I do, I just don’t step on other people’s shoes, do not spit on other people’s life and don’t force someone against his or her will 😀

That is about being careful and taking a good care of my life! 🙂

Sometimes I can hurt someone, unintentionally. I am sorry about that! Judge me all you want, but keep the verdict to yourself.”

The spice of life “go to different places, meet different people, and see different things.” “Good things happen to A Good person.”

My job: I just help out in my parents’ biz.
I don’t like to work for other people, I ain’t big on having a boss. 🙂

I am an understanding person, so don’t forget me if you need a friend to talk to. It would be my pleasure. 🙂

I am of a cheerful disposition.

From my point of view someone who is easy-going, kind, helpful, friendly and a funny person who thinks of other people’s feelings all comes in one set. An Unfriendly person, who is unkind, unhelpful and doesn’t think of other people’s feelings is another set.

I had the honor to be interviewed for Youth Leader Magazine. 🙂 Click here to see that article

My name is Dy Dara. I am 27 years old. I do not wish to be any other age because my life at 13 was nowhere as exciting and enjoyable as my life at 27. I enjoy every aspect of life. I am the kind of man who has a thousand kind of men in one body, so that’s make me become not a man of so boring person and The never boring life of me with a thousand ideas. The difference makes the world beautiful. It means that everyone is unique in his/her own way and don’t look down on someone who is different from you.

“Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” ~ Confucius

Only understanding, easy-going and open minded people that can see the beauty of my personality. My easy-going nature accepts more people into my life, but I choose to hang out with easy-going and understanding people only. Some friends are not easy to be their friends and some people are bad for my life! I don’t belong to difficult people world, and they don’t belong to mine. Two people hang out together, the good person and the bad person. If the good person has more influence, the bad person will become the good person, if not, the good person will become the bad person. Some people are bad for your life! Sometimes you don’t know what you are getting yourself into.

Knowing your value, if a man/woman doesn’t see that, he/she doesn’t deserve you.

Youth is a once in a lifetime gift. Make it memorable… and meaningful.
I don’t want to miss anything good in my youth.

I am a happy man in a happy world. Everything is depending on the way you think it, if I think I am the one of the happiest men on earth, I am. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way, You just go with the flow, baby! 😀

Resilient can describe my personality. I won’t be unhappy for long. The special phrases I use is

“When you are happy, you live a day. When you are not, you still live one day. Why don’t we make that day a happy day!”

My Mother, My Hero: The most special person in my life! My Parents are the best gifts that ever happened to my life. I’m proud of that. I am so proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to. I love spending time with family and friends.

My father always said “If you don’t swim you don’t feel tired.” He means if I don’t explore life I am not going to know what life is. These words really meet up with my view. You’ve probably heard the saying that diversity is the spice of life. It means go to different places, meet different people, and see different things.

Click on the picture to see the topic called “I am so proud of my parents. Because of them, I have been able to live the life I want to.” 🙂

This topic is the most important topic out of all the topics I’ve written, because it is about my most wonderful memories of my parents and the journey of my life.

I would like to show my gratitude and appreciate towards my parents.

My life is more than a one man show! The people around me, parents, siblings, grandparents, friends etc all have played a role in my life’s story. My interactions with them and how they had influence on my life. What I’ve learned, heard, seen, done, experienced etc .

Remember, those whose lives you have touched and whose have touched yours are always a part of you.

I have learned to be self-aware, and that changed a lot of perceptions about myself , other people and life. I spent many long years of my life trying to understand how to become aware. I used to react with reflection, judging others Why People Act the Way They Do? and rationalizing my every action. Self awareness is the most important tool to use to enhance my self esteem, I discovered.

I don’t believe in sin for next life, but I do believe the good things I do, they will pay me a very pleasure price:) and the bad things I do, they will pay me a very unpleasure price:(

Life is what you make it, so make the best of it. Or make fun of it, depending on your sense of humor! Click here to see the topic called "enjoy your life"

I am easy-going who is relaxed and not easily upset or worried. Outside observers with laziness, but When I have decided to do something, I put my all into it and I take it very seriously. Enjoying the experiences in life, not worrying about if they succeed or not. Play is important, accepts more people into my life. Show more empathy for others. I am a carefree person, I don’t care what others think about me because I can’t control what others think of me but whatever I do, I just don’t step on other people shoes and do not spit on other people life. I can do whatever I want with my life. This is my life. Acting like I don’t care about some people, when deep down I really care♥ about my parents, lover and friends.

I am also outgoing who is friendly and energetic and finding it easy and enjoyable to be with others. What  my people around me want is what I want.

I cannot serve everyone’s heart. Just be the best I can be!!! 🙂

I made a lot mistakes in my life but I learned from my mistakes, lesson learned. I still have much to learn. Don’t copy my bad habits. what’s done cannot be UNDONE.

I am a resilient man – I won’t be unhappy for long. Just give me a couple of days and I can get over almost anything.

I am a simple man, who wants simple things in life. Usually, I like to wear casual clothes. I don’t want anything fancy. Simple the best!

It is not too much to ask for, right?

When you’ve done something wrong you can forgive yourself, why you can’t forgive others?

The art of living means you are directly and actively involved in constructing your life just as an architect plans and maps out the structure before executing the acting of building. Likewise you are the architect of your own life.
Art means being creative and requires that you question the limits within which you actively live your life.
Enjoy your life.

I★♥love to drink alcohol on special occasions. But I'm not an Alcoholic!

Love me for who I am, not who I was. It’s not always a good idea to delve too deeply into someone’s past. I am not a good man but I have a good heart. who knows what I am talking about?

Am I to live the life of the unknown and search for the known? Or am to live the known and search for the unknown? “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” I am searching for the real meaning of life. I am not a flawless man. The way I think and the way I behave may be weird or look bad to you. But I am a man who doesn’t want to spit on anyone’s life. I think I am a fashionable person. But I am not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Beauty only gets attention but personality captures the ♥heart ♥ . I am the kind of man who has one bad thing but have other condition that is good. For example I am wild as long as I do not step on other people shoes, as long as I do not spit on other people’s life. I know may be this is my excuse 🙂 Sometimes it’s right to do the wrong things.

I’m a glass-half-full kind of guy. I believe the value of positive thinking is priceless. Positive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health, happiness and satisfaction. It also helps the daily affairs of life move more smoothly, and makes life look bright and promising.

I live boldly, Live Boldly doesn’t mean drastically transforming your life. It’s about taking a side-step from the life you currently lead to take on a challenge every now and then. My pledge is to challenge myself to do something “crazy” or “extreme” once a year. I don’t want to look back on my life and think, “I wish I did that.”

I am an Individualist. Individualism is the moral stance, political philosophy, ideology, or social outlook that stresses “the moral worth of the individual”. Individualists promote the exercise of one’s goals and desires and so independence and self-reliance while opposing most external interference upon one’s own interests, whether by society, family or any other group or institution. Individualism is thus also associated with artistic and bohemian interests and lifestyles where there is a tendency towards self creation and experimentation as opposed to tradition or popular mass opinions and behaviors as so also with humanist philosophical positions and ethics.

You know what, when someone tell me I am a good person, I think I am not that good, and when someone say I am a bad person. I think I am not that bad. And despite all this little controversy that I have with my personality, I still remain to be a Simple man. My friends know me as a happy person in the outside but actually I’m troubled in the inside sometimes. Often, I am mistakenly judged by people who don’t know me personally. They find me snooty.  but if they’re going to know me personally, they’ll find Me completely the opposite. I feel that people get different first impression of me. Sometimes, they find me unfriendly but sometime they find me very friendly. Sometimes, I’m a joker if I’m in the mood to crack some jokes. Hedonist can describe my personality = living and behaving in ways that mean you get as much pleasure out of life as possible, according to the belief that the most important thing in life is to enjoy yourself. I also want to learn, experience and explore life.

What my parents want is what I want and who they want me to be I can be that person for them.

Before, my personality was like a mirror, whatever you did in front of it, you would see it reflected back at you. Because I have learned two phrases, my personality has changed from being a person that would be good to people who were good to him and bad to people that were bad, to a person that respects others and treat others as he would like to be treated. The two phrases is “treat everyone with politeness even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice but because you are nice” If we do the same thing as rude people we are not different from them. And “If you can control one moment of anger, you can escape hundred days of sorrow”

I’m a nice guy. But I have a bad side, everybody does. Do not bring out my bad side. Do you understand what I am saying?

What my friends want is what I want and who my gf want me to be I can be that person for her.

Do for others more than you do for yourself. Good things happen to a good person.

I have a hard time with lies and liars, and I think that it’s because of my nature to trust too easily and too quickly. As a result of this, I frequently find myself encountering people who lie as easily as they breathe. I find this to be a deplorable trait as what is the point in trying to have a relationship of any kind if it is not based on truths that are shared? Too many people in this world get by on façades which they hide behind, never letting anyone see beyond the persona they have created.

I am moody, messy, naughty, stubborn, weird, annoying,… whatever that is imperfect can describe me,

I am one of those people who can be very lonely if a loved one is away, or I can relish the time alone in the peace and quiet.It really depends upon the circumstances, as in exactly how long I am going to be alone and why. I do not equate being alone with loneliness. Sometimes, it is very nice to spend time alone; while other times, it is boring.

I am a believer in life-long learning. Love of learning is the guide of life

Delegation pay a courtesy call on Cambodia Prime Minister H.E. Samdech Hun Sen at Cabinet office in 2005.

When I have a bad time I think ” when I am having a good time, time is flying or I think true meaning of life is every aspect of life”. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. Chalk it up to experience. When I talk about life I will think of “When you are happy, you live a day. When you are not, you still live one day. Why don’t we make that day a happy day!”

When I encounter difficulties in my life I’ll always think of this special phrase “no matter how hard it is that time will pass. In others words, It is not the end of the world.

In my life story here you will see many quotations. You can say I am crazy about them or you can say it is boring here to see too many quotes and Sayings. Some people who don’t like it will say quotations, my ass. But I’ll tell you what; I think I can have a happy life because of these words. Collecting stamp is a famous hobby as well as an easy activity. Some people are considering the habit of Collecting stamps but for me, collecting quotations have been my hobby since I was in high school.

The question is how we can relate it on our daily life?

I am always amaze and impress by the wit of the writers and speakers who are able to express with clarity in words the truth about the different aspects of life.

In my life I have learned a lot wise words. These words are really useful for my life. If you can apply them in your life, it will be very useful for you too. Quotations help us remember the simple yet profound truths that give life perspective and meaning. When it comes to life’s most important lessons, we can all use gentle reminders.

This is a gentle and heartfelt guide to the fundamentals of living a life rich in joy and contribution.

Things that seem very interesting to me may be not interesting to you.

In my opinion: ពេលផឹកចេះ sing បទគួរហាមចិត្តខ្លះដែរ

បើមិនដូចេ្នះ ទេ sing បទលំបាកតែឯង. When you are drinking if you are not control yourself, the next morning you are hurting yourself!From my point of view: Sometimes, I think when my friends ask me to hang out at nite. I have to share to them abt 50. If I stay at home I can save 50 and I can still go through the nite. But if I think like this all the time my life will suck. Better you know when is inappropriate time to go. One good sentence cannot apply to all situations, but most of them do.Before, I was a dare-devil when I got drunk and sad, I drove very fast, without realizing the value of life. That was the stupidest thing I did. ហេងដែរឆ្លងផុត!! ! Now, no more. One life is connected to many hearts. When you have a problem or lose your life, it can damage the heart of your friend, loved one, relative and especially your parents.

I consist of more than just my past. In fact, I think about it, my past is only one third of who I am.

The other two parts consist of who I am today, as well as who I hope to be in the future…in other words, I hopes and dreams for the future. Who I am today and who I hope to be in the future are all part of the Whole Person. This is who I am.

If u don’t Truly know me then don’t judge me. if u think u know me n u don’t like me, then plz make ur way out of my life. Haters are not needed. Thanks 😀
The more mercy you have, the less hatred you have. Peace V

Life is not so hard if you are working at it day by day. Love yourself for who you are and enjoy life every step of the way.

I don’t like to judge people. What they are doing is their business. But if they need my help if I can I will.

You can not choose where to be born but you can choose the way to walk!

I have studied at Build Bright University (BBU) majoring in Information Technology and graduated in 2006. And I also hold a degree in Bachelor of Arts in English (English for International Business) from Institute of Foreign Languages (IFL) in 2007.

Youth Ambassador, South Korea-Asia Youth Camp
Youth Ambassador, Japan-ASEAN Youth Exchange

National Leader of Cambodia Contingent 2008

 

 

 

 

Flag hoisting (Nippon Maru)

 

Youth Camp for Asia’s Future 2008

Participated in Youth Camp for Asia’s Future 2008 in South Korea

Organized cultural performance and exhibition to enhance understanding on Korea through cultural experiences and to promote mutual cooperation and friendship for the peace and prosperity of Asia.

Position: National Leader of Cambodia Contingent

That Was a Nice Program!!! 🙂

IYF Global Camp

Participated in IYF Global Camp 2008 in Australia; IYF Global Camp is a 10 days camp where international university students travel to overseas to meet people and cultures from various countries.

Ship for Southeast Asian Youth Program 2005

Participated in the Ship for Southeast Asian Youth Program 2005

(SSEAYP) in Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam, Brunei, Philippines, and Japan;

យើងជាអ្នកកាច់ចង្កូត និងជាម្ចាស់នៃនាវា លើសមុទ្ទជីវិត។ យើងត្រូវរក្សាសតិស្មារតី នឹងនួន ក្នុងការហ្វឹកហ្វឺន ត្រៀមខ្លួន កាន់ចង្កូតនាំនាវា យ៉ាងប៉ិនប្រសប់ ដើម្បីធ្វើដំណើរ ឆ្លងកាត់សមុទ្ធជីវិត ដែលប្រកបដោយរលកនិងព្យុះសង្ឃរា ដោយសុខសុវត្ថិភាព និង ជោគជ័យក្សេមក្សាន្ត រហូតដល់ត្រើយ។

Position: Cambodia Participating Youth

A life-changing experience!

SSEAYP, you’ve given me so much, so far beyond my expectation.

You are the one journey that I will never ever regret taking.

SSEAYP is awesome. I wouldn’t trade it for anything!

May SSEAYP Long Live 🙂

My greatest enthusiasms is travelling.

My second greatest enthusiasms is philosophy.
Philosophy has always been regarded as a means of discovering the secret of happiness. What really is that has the amazing power to make us happy? That gives us joy, pleasure, enormous satisfaction?

enthusiasm= a subject or activity that interests you very much.

Former CHO staff. I work as a volunteer coordinator. My primary responsibility is translating for English speaking visitors. I also show visitors around the CHO projects, communication through CHO emails and teaching Khmer to the long term overseas teams.

https://dydara.wordpress.com/2010/04/24/my-job

I am interested  in being a  Radio talk Show host to discuss good knowledge of many different subjects including love, study, and everyday life. It is kind of an open topic show – our listeners can call to  discuss the issues of the day and I can share my ideas and to cheer them up. And, I believe in this two phrases ” One sweet phrase can keep people warm for the whole winter.” and

“Thoughtless words can wound as deeply  as a sword, but wisely spoken words can heal”.

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The thing I love about writing blog is that it allow me to talk to many people I will never personally meet.

I had a passion to add value to people taught and energized me to write.

I trust that you will enjoy and benefit from reading this blog, just as I did. In it you will find moral stories, exchange program and my chronological life.

To youths who read this I have this message: You should have self-discipline, effort, academic achievement, social participation and community service. Listen to your parents and do as much as you can. Just be the best you can be “For your parents’ sake.”If you can do most of these things, your parents will proud of you!Everyone cannot succeed in everything they do, but just keep trying. Failing does not mean the end of everything. You should keep your self-belief, find out your weak point and improve on it. Failing to achieve is not a failure, but losing your hope and motivation is a true failure. What I am saying here is not teaching you. I am not qualified to teach anyone, but I just want to share some ideas with you guys, audiences!

I hope this blog is not just for entertaining but also you learn some things from it as well.

That’s my legacy to the world!

Some people said Dara likes to travel too much, naz I don’t think so. Sometimes I stay at home all the times and get stress. who knows? as long as my parents understand me, the rest I don’t care.

I like to do whatever I want. But whatever I do, I just don’t step on other people’s shoes, do not spit on other people’s life and don’t force someone against his or her will. I can do whatever I want with my life. This is my life. 🙂 Sometimes I can hurt someone, unintentionally. I am sorry about that! 🙂

Living the inspired life means living with purpose, meaning, and intentionality. It means living out our callings. It means choosing to LIVE and not just be carried along by the circumstances of life. I Live the Inspired Life- I pray you’ll be inspired, too! Click here to see that topic. My parents who inspired me to have a happy life! 😀

 

“There is only one success – to spend your life in your own way.”

– Christopher Morley

 

My Dream: I would like to live in as many as different countries as possible. This is just my dream. Maybe the dream is what it’s all about, one of the important words for me. I was a little boy with a little dream that came true, not so little, by the way.

I should be practical, find a girl and be nice to her, take over my Parents’ business, get married and have lots of kids. heeheeh 😀

I am proud of who I am and I am proud of what I have.

Man who waits for roast duck to fly into mouth must wait very, very long time.

You only live once, but if you work it right, once is enough. 🙂

I just wanna live my life to the fullest. nothing more, nothing less!!!!!! 🙂

To see more about me: https://dydara.wordpress.com/2010/05/31/i-am-so-proud-of-my-parents-because-of-them-i-have-been-able-to-live-the-life-i-want-to/

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my long story! 🙂